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Originally Posted by m0xxie 
Am I really the oldest one here? I was afraid of that! Planned to have my kids in my early thirties, but fate had other things in store. So here I am at 43, hoping for my first. I'm hoping what I lack in youth I can make up for in financial and emotional stability. I'm quite envious of those having children in their 20s... by the time they are my age, their children will be mostly grown and they can start another whole kind of life, which I think is awesome. But I know in my heart of hearts that I wasn't ready for this responsibility until now, and I'm so grateful that it looks like I may get the chance at last.
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My Mom had her first child when she was eighteen and by the time she was 24 she had been divorced twice and had two more kids. She was 43 when I was born. She's the best mother in the world, not just according to me, but to my two brothers as well. I'm going to be 30 when my baby is born and that's the oldest any woman in my family has waited for as far back as we know.
Your baby is coming into this world with a mother who has her !@#$ together. Some people never mature, some mature earlier than they should ever have to (my case).
You're ready now. So many congratulations to you. So many people never take the time to think about the physical and financial demands that babies require, let along the emotional support. You're already heads above so many others. Be proud. Trust me - your baby will thank you for this and you'll be the best mother you can possibly be. A big up to you for putting thought into what will be best for a child and not just for yourself. If there were more people like you this world would be a much better place, I'm sure.

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