It was anything BUT a natural childbirth. SOOO many things went wrong, starting with being 13 days past due and my waters breaking with mec.
Looking back, there were SOOOO many things that I should have done differently, starting with INSISTING that my midwife be contacted (she was sleeping). She had just done 5 births in 3 days (one of which being twins with complications) and so her pager was fwd to her partner (who, for the record, is no longer her partner). She wasn't notified for approx 8 hours after I arrived at the hospital (which I was pressured and scared into doing by her partner), and I wasn't educated enough to know how to react in this particular situation.
They wanted to do all sorts of things (continuous monitoring, vaginal exams done by several different people, induction after several hours, epidural, etc), and hospitals can be pretty scary for a first time mom... so I let a lot of it happen (believing the risks were too high to not do anything), and ended up with chorioamnionitis.
I pushed for 5.5 hours (coached, thanks to the epi), and was never given the chance to help my body correct itself (positioning, etc). She turned posterior during labor (she was OA), and was asynclitic.
I have the same midwife for this birth (she was great the last time, once she got there), and 2 doulas... one of which is a very close friend of mine (I will be her first birth) and the other is another friend who started her doula training last year (but she has done several births every month, so I feel fairly confident having her there). Regardless though, I've done so much research that I think I know more than the two of them put together.

Anyway, this lazy uterus comment caught me off guard (once I remembered!), so I wanted to ask if anyone's has any experience.
RedOakMomma: Thank you for telling me your story. Labor hasn't started for me yet (I'm 40+4) and I'm getting increasingly nervous of a repeat event (my body has never gone into labor on it's own), or how to prevent it.