I am terrified of having to transfer! It's not because I'm afraid of the hospital. I know that it's completely necessary in some situations and I would have no problems going if I needed to. My main reason is (please don't judge), it's going to cost a fortune if I do. If we didn't want a homebirth and went with a planned hospital birth instead, it would be significantly less (we are paying for everything out of pocket, no maternity coverage). But I really want a homebirth! It's just so much more "like it's supposed to be" in my mind. I know cost shouldn't be a deciding factor, but we do have to be somewhat practical because of our particular situation.
My question is, what are the main reasons for having to be transferred? This is my first baby, does that increase my chances?
I know hospital vs homebirth is a "hot topic" on Mothering, but please be thoughtful and kind. I'm actually nervous just posting this!
My question is, what are the main reasons for having to be transferred? This is my first baby, does that increase my chances?
I know hospital vs homebirth is a "hot topic" on Mothering, but please be thoughtful and kind. I'm actually nervous just posting this!









The first was an emergency, the second was not. Both turned out fine with no c/s--I give the first doc a lot of credit because he could have rushed me straight to the OR. I'm TTC and definitely hope to have a home birth!

