my bf was in boy scouts from cubbies to eagle. like 12 years total of scouts. this included sports, camping, all kinds of incidents when boys would wind up seeing each other one way or another. he said he knew of a few intact boys but no one ever EVER talked about it. of my 3 brothers, all grown up in group homes/orphanages, all athletes, with 2 in the military, and 1 an ex-rough neck, they also never EVER talked about each other's junk. and this was in a time when the average here was much more circumcised-heavy. in michigan, where i think the op is from, there is still a high rate, but i mean, in general, its getting better. so if you'r in a room naked with 10 guys, and 4 are intact and 5 are not, i am pretty sure no one would dare make a comment. and even if, let's say, someone did come to a point in their life when they were teased about such a thing, offer them surgery then. i mean, in all fairness, it should be up to them to begin with.