Can I just rant for a min about my secondary?
He moved in with my hubby and I in January. I will say that I love him as a primary.
but he never considers my feelings. for instance, last night I asked him to move his laundry from the dryer so I could do the kids clothes before we go on a trip. I cannot do it tomorrow because I will be packing so we can leave Thursday. Today, I go to do laundry and the clothes are still in there, not to mention a pile on the dryer so large i have no where to put my basket full of clothes. I get on IM and am furious. This happens every.single.week. I do the kids clothes and my boys do their own clothes to help out. He says he thought i just said empty the washer, which apparently was full too. Really? I need to do clothes and the last thing I want to do is haul his immensly large clothing piles back into the house(we have a detached laundry room) so i can dry clothes? He really thought i just needed to washer? He doesnt get home until 7 p.m. and by then i am too exhausted to switch dryer loads. I give him the weekend to do laundry. TWO DAYS. But he still somehow manages to forget his clothes and leave them for me to do, which I refuse.
I am just so livid. This is a greater pattern of his inconsideration. he leave towels on the floor in the bathroom, doesn't reuse towels, leaves trash in his room, plates all over the living room,etc. You get the point.
So tired of being his mommy
And with my IUD causing serious hormonal problems, i need support. But instead I am picking up his clothes from around the living room and doing his laundry.