May I join this group? I am so glad I found you and hope this is the right place to share. I recently happily came out to both myself and DH as bisexual. DH was awesome and in fact figured it out before I did
though the signs have always been there I just was ignoring them all this time if that makes sense. My crushes on other women have increased over the years or perhaps I have just been more aware of them!
DH is bi-curious. We aren't able to come out really...I mean our families would not get it at all even though we have a gay couple in our family but this would be too strange for them
. Our marriage is solid and we love each other - just so happens we fell in love and married a member of the opposite sex...but how can you explain that to our less than liberal friends/family? I guess at some point or another though they may figure it out and then it will just be what it is!
After many discussions we realized that we are open to the idea of polyamory. I am not 'out there' in the community either so it;s not an immediate situation but we do know that should I ( or maybe DH) ever fall for someone else then we are open to taking that step or at least putting it on the table.
We live in a small town and because I am married with a child I just don't get to meet any of the LGBT community and so I'm thankful that I have found this group where I feel like I/we belong and can be true to ourselves and hopefully explore possibilities in a safe place.