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Charting to Avoid/Fertility Awareness, June 2010

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June 2010

Welcome to the June 2010 charting to avoid and fertility awareness thread. We are all at different stages in family planning and our own fertility. Some of us are very ardently Charting to Avoid (CTA); most are CTA but would be thrilled with a BFP; and we even have a few who are not CTA but are also not TTC, and continue to hang out here.

If you did not post in May, you may have been deleted from the list. If you were mistakenly deleted, or you would like to be added/removed, please PM me and let me know. I cannot promise to make changes requested in the thread, but I will try to get to everything. To those who are new, welcome!

You must post in June if you want to be on the July list!

The May 2010 thread can be found here


*Charting/Using FAM/NFP to AVOID*

Who we are:


AlaskanFlower
AnnieA - since 12/07
Annie2186
Baby_Cakes
BarefootScientist - since 08/08 and 12 cycles in '05-'06
bbrandonsmom
Bellabaz
Blueone
Crabbyowl
dealic
doriansmummy
Fresh veggie
InMediaRes
JenineJessica - since 12/07
Jodi5
JonahRoo
Kidzaplenty
K-Mom3
Kcroto42 – CTA since 10/09
Lauren31
lilcrunchymama
MarineWife – CTA for 10 months, now CFS&G
MissE
mom2cash
MovingMomma - CTA since 02/09 plus some time before
MQ
Mummoth
nerdymom
Newbiemama09 - Using FAM for 2+ years
nerdymom
peabean26
Pinkgeek
RaraAvis - CTA since 8/09 plus 13 months before
Readytobedone
Sammerson0814
Sk8ermaiden
Smokering
Smylingeyz
Sunniecooks
theboysmama
Toolip
yippiehippie
youngspiritmom


Graduates


Wholewheatchick - Due in Dec. 2010
OsUvet - Due in Feb. 2011
Echospiritwarrior - Due in Feb. 2011
Lyterae - Due in Feb. 2011
Dex_Millie - Due in Feb. 2011
AnnieA - Due in March 2011




Summary of FAM rules (sympto-thermal)

Pre-ovulation rules:


1) First 5 Days Rule: You are safe the first 5 days of your menstrual cycle if you had an obvious temp shift 12-16 days before.

2) Dry day rule: You are safe to DTD after 6PM if you have been dry all day.


Post ovulation rules:


1) Peak day rule: the last day of fertile mucous is called the peak day (the day before your mucous begins to dry up). You are safe to DTD on the fourth consecutive day after the peak day. If another patch of more fertile mucous appears, start your count over.

2) Temperature shift rule: You are safe the evening of the third consecutive day your temp is above your coverline. If your temp falls at or below the coverline during the 3 day count, begin your count again.

BOTH rules must be satisfied to be considered in your infertile phase.


How to set a coverline:


When you see a temperature shift of at least 0.2 degrees F above the highest of the previous 6 temps, draw a line 0.1 degrees F above that highest temp.


Resources


Books:

Taking

Charge of Your Fertility
, by Toni Weschler
Garden of Fertility and
The Art of Natural Family Planning by John and Sheila

Kippley
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing: How Ecological Breastfeeding Spaces Babies by Sheila Kippley
Fertility, Cycles and Nutrition by Marilyn

Shannon

Websites:

Ovusoft charting software, and brief fertility library
Fertility Friend charting software, and ttc charting guide
myfertilitycharts.com free software for ttc or tta
Author Katie Singer's Garden of Fertility website
Mothering Magazine article by Katie Singer
Billings Ovulation Method info
Billings Ovulation Method Association, USA
Billings Centre, CA
Couple to Couple League (find an NFP instructor)
Creighton Model


Abbreviations:


AF: Aunt Flo, your period
AFM: as for me
BD: baby dancing; bed dancing (i.e. sex)
BFP: positive pregnancy test (big fat positive)
BFN: negative pregnancy test (big fat negative)
BIP: basic infertile pattern
CD: Cycle day
CM: cervical mucous (same as CF)
CF: cervical fluid (same as CM)
CTA: Charting to Avoid
CTW: Charting to "whatever" (not avoiding, not preventing)
DPO: Days past ovulation
DTD: Do the deed
GIO: get it on
EWCM: eggwhite cervical mucous/fluid
LP: Luteal phase - the time from ovulation until your period, average 10-16 days
LTL: low temp level (basically 1/10th below FAM's CL or on the highest of the 6 previous temps)
HTL: high temp level (4/10ths above LTL, temp rise needed to indicate O)
post #2 of 654
Holy cow! Is it really june???

What is even crazier is that my last cycle started in April

Gotta love having super loooong cycles

Happy June everyone!
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Subbing. I just glanced over the first post and saw that it says I was CTA for 10 months before my dh deployed a year ago. I better go back and count again because I thought we'd only been together for 4 cycles.
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subbing.

MW: 10 months could = 4 cycles.

Annie: My current cycle started April 22nd, and I haven't O'd yet!
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
Subbing. I just glanced over the first post and saw that it says I was CTA for 10 months before my dh deployed a year ago. I better go back and count again because I thought we'd only been together for 4 cycles.
I can take the info off... I haven't changed/updated any of the info there. Let me know what it should say

CD37, still waiting for "something" to occur, I've noticed this evening that my face is starting to break out. Just in time for all of the important people to be in the office this week...
post #6 of 654
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Originally Posted by MovingMomma View Post

Annie: My current cycle started April 22nd, and I haven't O'd yet!
you've got a couple days on me, my current cycle started April 25th (still no O).
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Subbing!

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Originally Posted by lyterae View Post
CD37, still waiting for "something" to occur, I've noticed this evening that my face is starting to break out. Just in time for all of the important people to be in the office this week...
7dpo. My face is a MESS. I've not broken out like this since college (roughly 10 years ago)!! I'm waiting for either AF or a BFP, and I should know either way by the end of this week. I feel very PMS-y, bloated, weepy, hormonal. Gross. I'm a barrel of fun!
re: not having any safe days prior to O - I thought sticky or crumbly CF *was* considered dry? Really, it's not? I usually have sticky/crumbly CM from the end of AF til about CD6-8, when I have considered it "safe". WDYT?
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Originally Posted by lyterae View Post
you've got a couple days on me, my current cycle started April 25th (still no O).
I didn't realize we're nearly cycle buddies! That's unusual on these long ones!
post #9 of 654
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Originally Posted by Baby_Cakes View Post
re: not having any safe days prior to O - I thought sticky or crumbly CF *was* considered dry? Really, it's not? I usually have sticky/crumbly CM from the end of AF til about CD6-8, when I have considered it "safe". WDYT?
Dry is no CF. Sticky can be your BIP and considered safe if you have no dry days. However, it is slightly more risky to use sticky as your BIP.

My dh is gone so much that I forget when he's been home. The 10 months CTA is correct but in those 10 months I only had 7 O cycles.
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Well my current cycle started two days ago. I think my DH might be ok with getting pregnant soon. I am still ambivalent. So I'm not really sure if we'll be avoiding this cycle, or for how many more cycles. But I'm going to continue to hang out here for a while anyway. At this point we are still officially avoiding...

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Originally Posted by Baby_Cakes View Post
re: not having any safe days prior to O - I thought sticky or crumbly CF *was* considered dry? Really, it's not? I usually have sticky/crumbly CM from the end of AF til about CD6-8, when I have considered it "safe". WDYT?
When the sticky goes away at CD 6-8, does it turn into creamy/EW/wetter stuff or do you have longer cycles and you go to dry for a while and then get wetter later? If it's the latter, I would suggest the Doering rule or something like it, it may give you more safe days. If it's the former, then yeah...sorry, you have to consider yourself fertile as soon as you start seeing that sticky stuff. I've seen pregnancies happen from DTD on a sticky day.
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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
Well my current cycle started two days ago. I think my DH might be ok with getting pregnant soon.
Good luck! I can't imagine how I would feel about actually TRYING (as in not avoiding) to get pregnant! It has always been an accident and being catholic (before I figured out CTA) it always seemed like I was just gonna keep having kids!

I guess we will see if we actually get to that point! I am going crazy just dealing with my 1 1/2 year old...........ugh, she is going through a hard stage
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Can I join? New to charting...

Hi! This is my first cycle CTA, and my first cycle off NuvaRing. Can you add me to the list? I imagine I'll need lots of interpretative assistance!

Thanks!
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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
Well my current cycle started two days ago. I think my DH might be ok with getting pregnant soon. I am still ambivalent. So I'm not really sure if we'll be avoiding this cycle, or for how many more cycles. But I'm going to continue to hang out here for a while anyway. At this point we are still officially avoiding...
Good luck! So exciting to possibly ttc!

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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
When the sticky goes away at CD 6-8, does it turn into creamy/EW/wetter stuff or do you have longer cycles and you go to dry for a while and then get wetter later? If it's the latter, I would suggest the Doering rule or something like it, it may give you more safe days. If it's the former, then yeah...sorry, you have to consider yourself fertile as soon as you start seeing that sticky stuff. I've seen pregnancies happen from DTD on a sticky day.
Yes, it goes from sticky to watery - very obviously - at around 7-9 DPO, and then morphs into creamy, and that's when I consider myself starting to be fertile. GTK, though. Maybe I need to keep a closer eye just to be sure it's not starting to change over to creamy early.

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Originally Posted by AlaskanFlower View Post
Hi! This is my first cycle CTA, and my first cycle off NuvaRing. Can you add me to the list? I imagine I'll need lots of interpretative assistance!

Thanks!
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Welcome AlaskanFlower!

Wow, I need to start thinking about picking up a new thermometer. Tick, tick, tick.
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Welcome Alaskanflower

Carrie ~ Are you sure the stuff you see right after is CF and not leukorrhea? If it's leukorrhea, you are safe those days. It seems strange that you'd go from sticky to watery to creamy and then back to watery/ewcf. Or is creamy your most fertile CF? What cd do you usually O?

http://medical-dictionary.thefreedic...com/leukorrhea

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leukorrhea
[lo̅o̅′kôrē′ə]
Etymology: Gk, leukos + rhoia, flow
a white discharge from the vagina. Normally, vaginal discharge occurs in regular variations of amount and consistency during the course of the menstrual cycle. A greater than usual amount is normal in pregnancy, and a decrease is to be expected after delivery, during lactation, and after menopause. Leukorrhea is the most common reason for women to seek gynecologic care. Also spelled leucorrhoea. See also vaginal discharge.
http://womenshealth.about.com/od/vag...Leukorrhea.htm

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Leukorrhea is the medical term for a certain type of vaginal discharge that is common during pregnancy as well as at other times during your reproductive years. If you have leukorrhea, you may have a thick and sticky vaginal discharge that is white, yellow, or green. It can vary with a woman's menstrual cycle as her hormone levels change.
(I finally found links that talk about it in situations other than pg!)
post #16 of 654
Thread Starter 
Morning ladies! I can hardly believe it's June already..

Today is CD38, todays temperature will most likely be discarded. I left all the windows open and forgot to get out the extra blankets. It finally cooled down!
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Ugh, lyterae. Sorry about the long cycle. I know how frustrating that is. Hang in there. It'll have to be over eventually, one way or another.
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
Ugh, lyterae. Sorry about the long cycle. I know how frustrating that is. Hang in there. It'll have to be over eventually, one way or another.
I have a new found appreciation for those of you with long/irregular cycles. It is terribly frustrating and it's just a waiting game... I wake up every morning excited to temp to see if maybe it's the day

So far I'm still waiting, eventually it has to end. I'm not sure if I should be packing "supplies" in anticipation of break-through bleeidng/anovulatory cycle or if I should just be waiting for ovulation to happen. It would be nice to know which way it will go.
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Can you add me to the CTA list as well? I am new to charting, not temping until my AF comes. Currently at CD 52. Here is my chart:

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/i...hp?interface=0


Thanks!!!!!!!
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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
Well my current cycle started two days ago. I think my DH might be ok with getting pregnant soon. I am still ambivalent. So I'm not really sure if we'll be avoiding this cycle, or for how many more cycles. But I'm going to continue to hang out here for a while anyway. At this point we are still officially avoiding...
WooHOo, that could be super fun!


I guess I could have my name removed from the CTA list now since we're not anymore (unless you want to chart stalk until my ). Yay for us to have sucessfully avoided since November! I'll certainly be back again. Even though I have copious amounts of time I guess I'll go ahead and ask since I'm here. With #1 returned at 15 months and with #2 around 12 months postpartum. Would you suggest just keeping an eye on CF and then planning to resume charting when things CF shows quite fertile or just start around 8-9months pp temping?
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