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post #121 of 654
Agree with both-- o possible, and cd41.

Not on ravelry... I keep looking at it, every time I go to find a pattern, and you have to sign up, but I've been avoiding. I certainly don't need an excuse to obsess more!! And the problem with the yarn, is that most of it is crappy stuff I was given in bulk when my grandmother passed away. There's a few balls of nice stuff I'm excited to work with, but the majority is pretty blah that I'm just forcing myself to use up first.

RE: Luteal phase. Other than the 14 day one, I really am pretty confident on all the other O days. They seem very clear to me. So we're essentially left with cyst, or hormonal imbalance? Yay, those sound exciting. lol. It seems funny because I would expect for there to be an "issue" it should be such a bigger difference month to month, but I just kept having that 1-2 day mark in my head, and finally went and checked. Mine waries 1-4 days technically. le sigh. I'll probably just leave it, and after a few months of whatevering if I'm starting to get worried, then I think that puts me back at when I need to go for my yearly physical anyways. My doc is pretty good about my charting, and she trusts my interpretations.
post #122 of 654
AF came this morning! Here was my chart. I wish I could show you all my charts as I am wondering what my LP is. This month it was 13 days from what FF says. But I have had 10-14 day LP since charting on FF.
post #123 of 654
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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
Um...UFOs? I've obviously missed something.
sorry to get us OT I'm a little crazy when it comes to knitting and fiber.

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Originally Posted by kcroto42 View Post
To all you ladies who knit, you should be hanging out on the Ravelry forums if you're not already; tremendous fun is had there!

Here is my final chart for last month (scroll down). I moved the O day back one more day so that the 10 day LP would fit with my usual 10-12 day. I looked back, and a 23 day cycle is shorter than anything I've ever had before. I wish I had a print out somewhere so I could figure out what has made my cycles so short recently! My sister and I have been spending a lot of time together, and we started on exactly the same day, and I've heard annecdotally that those things can be connected, though I don't know if there's any research to bear it out. Oh well.

We're going away for a wedding this weekend with the 2.5 year old...should be "fun" lol.
I am on ravelry same SN if you want to look me up.

From looking through my past charts (and I really only have three good ones-long cycles + lost data) they are all 11 and 12.

I've been playing and playing with the settings on both FF and Ovusoft and I'm just beyond confused. It does look like my temp is still climbing so I'm thinking I did finally O maybe around CD 23 or 34 since the EWCM was last right around there and the OPKs were quite a bit more "almost positive" on days 26 and 27 than day 19.

Every morning when I go to type in my data DH is asking me if I am pg yet since I thought original O was going to be around CD20. This morning I just said it's going to take a couple of weeks still. patience.
post #124 of 654
echospiritwarrior: On FF it looks like you may have O'd CD 25. On Ovusoft it looks like you may have O'd CD 26. Why are your temps different on each? And what's the reason for the temp on CD 24? You need one more high temp to confirm a CD 26 O, and I'd encourage you to wait for it, esp. w/the CD 24 temp.
post #125 of 654
echo ~ That's confusing because your temps are slightly different in each chart. The data on the FF chart suggests that, using NFP rules, you could consider yourself safe today. On the Ovusoft chart, though, you need at least one more high temp to confirm unless you can ignore the cd20 temp. Using FAM rules, though, you can't confirm O yet. Your CL is 97.6 on the FF chart and you have only 2 temps above that. You need at least one more high temp and that would put your O on cd26. Your CL on Ovusoft is 97.7 and you only have one temp above that. I don't see how you can confirm O for cd23 or 24.

I've got some crappy yarn that was gifted to me, too. I tried using it a few times but I just can't stand working with it. I can't sell it on Ravelry. No one wants it.
post #126 of 654
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
I don't see how you can confirm O for cd23 or 24.
Yes. Echo, I wonder if you are focusing too much on CM and OPK's. They are really better signs to show when O is approaching, while temps are the gold standard for confirming O has already happened. You should look to CM, CP, and then OPK's, O pain, etc. in roughly that order to confirm what your temps are telling you, but not vice versa. Don't use secondary signs to inform temps.
post #127 of 654
the reason the temps are different are because Ovusoft was adjusting, the actual temps are on FF. Because it's getting light earlier I am waking up earlier. I started temping at 6:40 in lieu of 7:15 maybe around CD12
post #128 of 654
I got a new thermometer... again! I got the same exact basal thermometer I had before, and the instructions have the different numbers of batteries that it it, so I'm hanging on to them.

We're heading off for the weekend to Osoyoos, which is a warm lake about 5 hours from home. At least some fun things are screwing up my chart, too!
post #129 of 654
I've decided to change my wording/thinking to either confirming O or being safe, like NFP does, rather than pinpointing O. I think that's more clear and safer for CTA purposes. So rather than looking at the thermal shift to pinpoint O, I'll just use it to definitively confirm that O has happened at some point at least 3 days ago. (That's all they really do, anyway.) I don't know if that will make a difference for anyone else but I think it will for me. I won't get hung up on exactly when I think O occurred based on CF or CP or opks or whatever. I'll just know from my temps that it did occur and I'm no longer fertile. Does that make sense?
post #130 of 654
CD1 for me!!!!! Yay for no baby - boo for feeling like double crap now

Antibiotics are crazy though, I already feel so much better than I did yesterday!

So, off to my 9th month of avoiding and sixth cycle.........stupid long cycles
post #131 of 654
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I've decided to change my wording/thinking to either confirming O or being safe, like NFP does, rather than pinpointing O. I think that's more clear and safer for CTA purposes. So rather than looking at the thermal shift to pinpoint O, I'll just use it to definitively confirm that O has happened at some point at least 3 days ago. (That's all they really do, anyway.) I don't know if that will make a difference for anyone else but I think it will for me. I won't get hung up on exactly when I think O occurred based on CF or CP or opks or whatever. I'll just know from my temps that it did occur and I'm no longer fertile. Does that make sense?
Yes, that makes perfect sense. And for me, it seems more logical for CTA purposes anyway. You just need to confirm that it O happened and now you are safe rather than pinpointing O. I guess I can see the value in pinpointing O if you were TTC but it doesn't serve a lot of purpose in CTA IMO.
post #132 of 654
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Yes, that makes perfect sense. And for me, it seems more logical for CTA purposes anyway. You just need to confirm that it O happened and now you are safe rather than pinpointing O. I guess I can see the value in pinpointing O if you were TTC but it doesn't serve a lot of purpose in CTA IMO.
Yep. When TTC it was very important to me to know when I was most fertile so I could maximize BD timing. So, it was important to know when I had ewcf and a hso cp. I didn't have to worry about getting into trouble if I continued to BD after I thought I had Oed based on CF or secondary fertility signs just to find out later I didn't O when I thought. That would actually be good when TTC. Obviously, very bad for CTA. With CTA I only need to know when I start to have CF other than my BIP so I know when I enter my potentially fertile period and then when I have a clear and sustained thermal shift so I know I'm infertile again.
post #133 of 654
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
I've decided to change my wording/thinking to either confirming O or being safe, like NFP does, rather than pinpointing O. I think that's more clear and safer for CTA purposes. So rather than looking at the thermal shift to pinpoint O, I'll just use it to definitively confirm that O has happened at some point at least 3 days ago. (That's all they really do, anyway.) I don't know if that will make a difference for anyone else but I think it will for me. I won't get hung up on exactly when I think O occurred based on CF or CP or opks or whatever. I'll just know from my temps that it did occur and I'm no longer fertile. Does that make sense?
It makes sense to me, and I think that is kind of what I have been doing some cycles.
Like that one cycle where I almost had an oops because O was so early, I wasn't sure exactly when, I was just sure it had happened!
And this last cycle my temps were a little iffy so I waited that one extra day. I still don't know which day I definitely O'd. I either did on CD39 and had a 15day LP or on CD40 and had a 14 day LP.

Really doesn't make much difference if you think about it. Although I do think that I maybe didn't wait until the end of that 4th high temp day seemed to work out ok!!
post #134 of 654
Can anyone look at my chart and tell me if you think, based on my Cm since I dont temp, that i o'd around the 12th of May? I dont know and I just cam off the pill in April and still no period. I want to see if I should test and make sure b/c I dont know anything at this point except No AF.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2eb6cf


thanks!!!
post #135 of 654
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Originally Posted by Sammerson0814 View Post
Can anyone look at my chart and tell me if you think, based on my Cm since I dont temp, that i o'd around the 12th of May? I dont know and I just cam off the pill in April and still no period. I want to see if I should test and make sure b/c I dont know anything at this point except No AF.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2eb6cf


thanks!!!
Based on your CF, I would say it's possible O happened around CD 44. If you haven't gotten AF in a week, I would test.
post #136 of 654
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Originally Posted by Sammerson0814 View Post
Can anyone look at my chart and tell me if you think, based on my Cm since I dont temp, that i o'd around the 12th of May? I dont know and I just cam off the pill in April and still no period. I want to see if I should test and make sure b/c I dont know anything at this point except No AF.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2eb6cf


thanks!!!
Without temps as you know, you can't confirm but I would say if you have O'd it happened CD 44 or 45 (May 23 or 24). Which puts you at 10-11 dpo right now. I would expect AF within a few days but not freak if she doesn't show because it's quite possible you didn't O. The Pill can really screw things up IME. What makes you think you O'd May 12th?
post #137 of 654
CD8 for me 2nd cycle CTA. Still spotting and my temps never went down abruptly...it was more of a minor change every day. My normal temps are around 96F and during my LP it was somewhere at 97F...once I got AF it went down like 1/10 every day. I guess it's normal, it's just my body. I just see on all your charts (or most of them) that temps drop dramatically (like 1degree F). I'm back in the 96F.
post #138 of 654
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I just see on all your charts (or most of them) that temps drop dramatically (like 1degree F).
My temp doesn't usually drop dramatically right before . Sometimes they stay high for the first few days of the next cycle. That's one reason I don't temp during my lp and .
post #139 of 654
Never mind..
post #140 of 654
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Originally Posted by BarefootScientist View Post
I decided I didn't want the constant beeping of the BD one, since I do like to stay in bed snuggled next to my DH and DS while I take my temp sometimes and that would be disruptive.
I too don't really like the constant beep and hiding under the covers or putting my hand around it affects my temp, I think.

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Originally Posted by jeninejessica View Post
It's hard once you've started charting to shut off that part of your brain though. I'm sure there are women out there who do it without obsessing, but I mean at any given day, i can tell you all my averages (LP, o date, etc) as well as where i am in my cycle, and how fertile I am, etc etc etc. It sure makes you feel a lot less spontaneous when you initiate BD, but are thinking in the back of your mind "hey I'm fertile" "or hey, im not fertile today".
This is EXACTLY how I am when I'm charting. I just can't turn it off in my brain! And I'm also always doing the math, how many days left until O? If we conceive what month would I be due? etc, etc. It's crazy. I can't get it off my brain.

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Isn't it weird how when you were younger and didn't want to get pregnant that you always heard of girls getting BFP from a missed WD, bad counting, etc. but now when you are hoping for an oops they almost never happen?
I was just talking about this w/my bff who is TTC. She worried constantly when she was on the pill about possible failure, but she's been TTC for 2 cycles and hasn't gotten pg. She's pissed she spent $$ on those pills, lol! I agree w/you -- you spend so much energy hoping you won't be a statistic when you're a kid, and now as adults we cling to that minute possibility with all we have in us. So ironic.

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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
If you don't think it's that and you are going to ttc or at least stop tta in the hopes of getting pg, you might want to have your hormones checked, especially get a 7dpo (not cd21) progesterone check. If you have low progesterone or a weak O (don't ask me exactly what that is), Vitex, clomid or femara can help with that. There might be other things like the maca I'm taking now. Obviously, progesterone supplements from 4dpo on could help.
This is good to know. I had only a 10 day lp this month - really short for me. Do seasons affect LP? With it being warmer maybe it had something to do with it.

CD1 here -- I have high hopes for June. I want to lose some weight, get a little stronger, and clean up my house a bit. I want to make some good changes this summer. DH and I are also planning a trip to Hershey Park, PA w/DD which should be lots of fun. I need to keep myself busy, busy, busy to keep my mind off wanting another LO. We shall see!


ETA: MissE & MW - if my temp hadn't dropped so dramatically I wouldn't have had ANY idea AF was coming today. I actually temped twice in a row b/c I couldn't believe the drop was that huge, especially since it was an hour LATER than I normally temp. Weird how different our bodies are!
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