Originally Posted by Baby_Cakes
My DH was worried when I took out my IUD, but he's definitely happier now that my libido is back, as well!
I removed mine too but after a
it caused. Even though I the non hormonal one (paragard) I think my libido still increased.
Originally Posted by AnnieA
Congrats to all the ladies graduating. I must say, it makes me feel like this though
DH and I had a talk the other night and I don't foresee that we will ever TTC. In fact, without Divine Intervention, I don't foresee that I will ever have a child. I just feel broken by this whole process.
for you Annie, you're making me want to
It was really hard for me the wanting but waiting but I sat down and wrote DH a long list with all of the pros and cons of why I felt the way I did and after a month or so he came around. Have you tried writing your DH? I think you have some very valid points and hopefully he will understand. It can't hurt anything.
Originally Posted by lyterae
I'm so sorry Annie
I also send my congratulations to those graduating, I can't wait until it's my turn!
I've screwed up my temps now
by not wearing pajamas the past two days. I think I'll need to find a pair, it's supposed to be cooling down anyway.
We are currently "whatevering", DH was tired of waiting and decided that he was okay with the possibility of a baby next winter. So I guess we'll see what happens this cycle. I know that if nothing comes out of it we'll be back to fully CTA next cycle.
I hope your turn will come quickly! How can you emotionally handle going from whatevering to TTA, that would be so rough on me! I'm surprised that jammies made such a difference!
Originally Posted by MarineWife
Annie. I feel sad, too, when I read about everyone getting prepared to TTC. I will never TTC again. Even though I have felt very overwhelmed with my boys that last few months, I still desperately want a girl. I was obsessing over that last night in bed. If I don't get pg with a girl by accident, I wondered if I could somehow talk my dh into adopting a 2-3yo girl. (My dh has always been very opposed to adoption. I have no idea why.) I may get pg again by accident. Depends on how diligent my dh is about w/d. That doesn't mean I will have another baby. With 6 m/cs I'm rather pessimistic about that, especially as I get older.
It's actually been kind of weird. Normally, during my lp the idea of another baby seems totally crazy while during my fertile cycle that's all I think about. It's been the opposite this cycle. Now that I'm halfway through my lp I'm thinking that things have been so good the last few days that maybe I could handle another baby.
looks like I got another stair step again this month
I'm not so good at figuring those ones out. I can't tell what day I Oed, anywhere from CD 20-24 is my guess, what do you think?