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post #21 of 214
6/2/10 at 5:15pm
s Jennifer, I'm so sorry. I hope you can take the end of the week and weekend to really cater to yourself, and maybe have a nice family activity to brighten your spirits.
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post #22 of 214
6/2/10 at 8:29pm
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**Updated to here, please let me know if I made an error**
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post #23 of 214
6/2/10 at 10:14pm
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s Jennifer, I'm so sorry. I hope you can take the end of the week and weekend to really cater to yourself, and maybe have a nice family activity to brighten your spirits.
Thank you so much! I took a drive and went to pick my DD up from her dad's by myself...and cranked up the music...talked to God for a bit....teared up, then had an "ahaaaa!" moment and now I can breath. I am letting go. If it is HIS will, then it will be done. He has a much bigger plan for me.
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post #24 of 214
6/3/10 at 1:20am
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Very good way to think!! Stay positive and always put your burdens on God.
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post #25 of 214
6/3/10 at 10:14am
My VIP at FF just expired. Is it necessary to keep it? I really liked all those colors all over my calendar, but not enough to pay for it!
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post #26 of 214
6/3/10 at 2:27pm
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Man that stinks Ozark!! I love the VIP to but I couldn't afford to get it right now. You know if someone signs up after looking at your chart you get another 5 days free or if you refer someone. I think its worth it if you want to spend the money.
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post #27 of 214
6/3/10 at 2:41pm
so I went to the lab and had a blood test yesterday. My dr wants to check my hcg level twice over 72 hours to look at the rise to rule out ectopic because I had one 12 years ago. I'll let you guys know how it goes, k.
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post #28 of 214
6/3/10 at 4:01pm
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so I went to the lab and had a blood test yesterday. My dr wants to check my hcg level twice over 72 hours to look at the rise to rule out ectopic because I had one 12 years ago. I'll let you guys know how it goes, k.
Good luck!
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post #29 of 214
6/3/10 at 7:50pm
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so I went to the lab and had a blood test yesterday. My dr wants to check my hcg level twice over 72 hours to look at the rise to rule out ectopic because I had one 12 years ago. I'll let you guys know how it goes, k.
Whats the difference between the rise in an ectopic pregnancy and in a regular pregnancy?

Fingers crossed that everything will be just fine!
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post #30 of 214
6/3/10 at 9:50pm
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so I went to the lab and had a blood test yesterday. My dr wants to check my hcg level twice over 72 hours to look at the rise to rule out ectopic because I had one 12 years ago. I'll let you guys know how it goes, k.
Good luck hope they triple!!!
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post #31 of 214
6/4/10 at 12:01am
GL trekkingirl. KUP Jennifer.

I am in the 2ww. I really hate that. I know I ovulated on the 1st. I was out of town and couldn't temp this morning but I am tempted not to temp at all... just because I don't want to see a drop. If we are not prego this month I think I am going to take a break from temping for the rest of the summer with DH's new schedule and all the traveling we will be doing.
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post #32 of 214
6/4/10 at 12:22am
if the numbers stay low instead of doubling like they should then it means somethings not right. Then they do an internal ultrasound, the kind with the probe. If they catch the ectopic early, they give you a shot in the area over your tube with a really long needle. Metheltrexate or something like that. Otherwise they have to remove your ovary and tube.

my hcg results today were 580. I think it's low normal range?
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post #33 of 214
6/4/10 at 1:37am
AH HA! I found ya! haha. I swear it didn't even sink in that it was June! lol. I kept thinking Gosh where IS everybody??? Then Kristin (nintendork) kindly pointed it out to me. hahaha. Trekkin- good luck!! please let us know how it turns out!

I really feel for all of you that have long cycles and not sure if/when you O. That is soooo me too! And OJazzy, I think I hate the TWW more than AF. haha. And as a VERY HEAVY bleeder that's sayin something. lol. I would agree that maybe it's a good idea to forget about the temps. Honestly, last cycle was our first of very actively ttc and the first time ever we had sex when I KNEW I was O'ing. And you know what? it was HORRIBLE. I could not... ahem... "finish" for the life of me because I was so distracted by it. And I totally lost my sex drive the whole month because then I kept thinking "don't think about it" haha. I'm not temping or OPKing this month so we can get back to normal. And I'll just try to relax. And if in a few months that still isn't working then I might try OPKing again... but i just found it to be so overwhelming. And what's funny is the whole reason I started trying it is because I love to obsess over things like this and thought it would be fun to enjoy it with you ladies. haha. And of course it comes to bite me in the butt. lol. But I learned my lesson and won't be doing that again. :-)
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post #34 of 214
6/4/10 at 8:51am
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if the numbers stay low instead of doubling like they should then it means somethings not right. Then they do an internal ultrasound, the kind with the probe. If they catch the ectopic early, they give you a shot in the area over your tube with a really long needle. Metheltrexate or something like that. Otherwise they have to remove your ovary and tube.

my hcg results today were 580. I think it's low normal range?
I didn't know it was so much trouble for an etopic pregnancy? That is horrible. I thought they had to remove the tube on a tubal pregnancy. I am so sorry.
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post #35 of 214
6/4/10 at 10:43am
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Man that stinks Ozark!! I love the VIP to but I couldn't afford to get it right now. You know if someone signs up after looking at your chart you get another 5 days free or if you refer someone. I think its worth it if you want to spend the money.
Soooo I logged into FF this morning, and it looks like someone signed up after looking at my chart. Five free days of sweet colors and sweeter predictions!!

Know anything about that?
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post #36 of 214
6/4/10 at 11:48am
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AH HA! I found ya! haha. I swear it didn't even sink in that it was June! lol. I kept thinking Gosh where IS everybody??? Then Kristin (nintendork) kindly pointed it out to me. hahaha.
Yay! you made it lol. I am so stalking you here btw. I am glad you are finding what works for you with all of this, I can tell it has been stressful for you. Fingers crossed!
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post #37 of 214
6/4/10 at 11:58am
She's here. (is there a half smilie face??)

I have given up TTC..if it happens, it happens. I'm going to live my life...spend more time with the kids, start working out to lose this 30lbs, just all around keep myself busy. It's emotionally straining me to TTC. I want to have fun again with my DH and just have sex...not baby dance. I want to just let it happen naturally...that how my parents did it...why cant we.

After next weekend I'm not sure how much I'll be on here(unless we get the iPad like I'm desperate to get!!!!)...we are moving out of our house into my parents while we stage our house and try to sell it. Then when we do sell it, we are building our own house. So we have a lot on our plates for the next 6+ months. Maybe in the mix of all that, we will get pg.
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post #38 of 214
6/4/10 at 12:01pm
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She's here. (is there a half smilie face??)

I have given up TTC..if it happens, it happens. I'm going to live my life...spend more time with the kids, start working out to lose this 30lbs, just all around keep myself busy. It's emotionally straining me to TTC. I want to have fun again with my DH and just have sex...not baby dance. I want to just let it happen naturally...that how my parents did it...why cant we.

After next weekend I'm not sure how much I'll be on here(unless we get the iPad like I'm desperate to get!!!!)...we are moving out of our house into my parents while we stage our house and try to sell it. Then when we do sell it, we are building our own house. So we have a lot on our plates for the next 6+ months. Maybe in the mix of all that, we will get pg.
It sounds like you have found some peace, I hope that everything works out for you (and soon!). You are going to be so busy! We will miss you around here!
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post #39 of 214
6/4/10 at 12:03pm
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It sounds like you have found some peace, I hope that everything works out for you (and soon!). You are going to be so busy! We will miss you around here!
I think there is more peace in my words than my body/mind. LOL I will still be here..just not sure how much. My mom has a computer, but it's an old dinosaur...if we get the iPad, then I will be on more than I am now...LOL
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post #40 of 214
6/4/10 at 12:51pm
Well AF is due tommorrow of Sun and I am cramping quite a lot.
Figures, I was excited this month! But it's ok I am not out til she shows her face!!!
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