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Ok ladies here it is. I'm working on getting our charts on here but I don't know how. Don't worry I've asked an expert!
What is your opinion about the abbreviations? Do we want to keep them on the first page or do they take up a lot of room? I think there is a link of abbreviations at the top of the ttc forum. I was just curious what you thought.

I noticed we have success in 3's. Well lets change that this month and have success in large numbers!

eta: I took out the abbreviations, however I can add them back at a moments notice if anyone wants em!
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Well I'm going to jump in and be the first poster on the June thread. I'm going a little nuts. For starters, I have weaned off my antidepressants and took my last one on Saturday. I'm doing surprisingly well, but I do feel a little on edge.

I'm also 7 DPO and teaching the last week of the school year (with children, next week is cleanup and such without children there) so that is making me an impatient basket case as well. Every twinge and symptom I'm wondering "Is that implantation? Am I PMS'ing? Is this a side effect of stopping my medication?"

The one week wait is brutal. And I broke down today, 7 DPO, and took a test. About 3 days earlier than I planned to!
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Awesome Amy! Good call on taking the abbreviations out. I never even thought about that and I don't think I ever referred to that list. I'd usually google it.

Lousli- WOW. You have A LOT going on! Just think, in 2 weeks all of THIS stress (except perhaps the anti-depressant withdrawal) will be over!

AFM- Still feeling good. I really, really hope this is my month. I really think it could be!
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Jessica, I hope it is your month too!

With my medication I used to be on 300 mg/day, my doctor had me cut down to 150/day for 1 week then 150/every other day for a week, Saturday was the last day for that week. So I think my symptoms shouldn't be too serious. I haven't had headaches or anything, just anxiousness/irritability (mostly with my kids though, so that might just be because they aren't listening to me at all and happen to be making huge messes all over the house )

I have an implantation question, but I think I'll post in another thread.
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Subbing So I'm waiting for midwife to get back to me on Friday, and DH contacted our HMO about meeting with his primary care provider to talk about possible male factor issues - they scheduled him for July 1st So I'm still telling myself, this is why we're starting to schedule the appt's now instead of waiting...

Lousli, busy week ahead for you - GL!

Mommytoallh, thanks for the thread!

Milosmomma,
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I'm here, unfortunately. Nothing new with me. Still bleeding, but it's just spotting that's been going on for over a week now . My HPT today was barely visible, so I hope it's outof my system now. Will check again tomorrow or Thursday.

Emotionally, I'm doing better. I think the final step in my recovery is getting the tattoo I've been planning on. That might be part of the closure I need. It's really important to me. Still trying to finalize my design, but I want to wait til we meet with the tattoo artist.

Is anyone else excited for the possibility of a spring baby?? I've had babies in March, April, & May, and just *love* that time of the year. May would have to be my favorite - it's finally warming up outside & everything is turning green - I just love it!
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http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21c5ba

just strange. I had a small bit of "something" I dunno even what it was. I had a temp drop, then it jumped up like crazy. I wiped yesterday and there was like a spot of blood on my to. I mean like a pin point. I wiped more thinking my period, and nothing. I bared down a bit and a little bit more. Then nothing. No more yesterday no more today. My temp is still high and I am 11dpo (my luteal phase is normally 11days)

It's just crazy. If it is my period, it needs to wait until Friday though.
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Yay, the June thread! Thanks, Amy!

Mollie, glad to hear you're doing better emotionally. Do you mind sharing what kind of tattoo you want? I've wanted a tattoo for a looong time. I want something with dragonflies since they have a special meaning to me. I'm very excited for the possibility of a spring baby. March was my favorite month to have a baby out of my 4.

AFM, the bleeding has finally stopped (just had a little brown today) I had some pretty sad days, but am feeling much better now that the bleeding has stopped. It really was horrible walking around shopping, school runs, etc..knowing I was losing my baby I wish I could have just stayed home and become a hermit during that time, but I have 4 other kids and life had to go on like usual. Not sure when I'll even O again, but I'm just going to wait until I start to see CM and then start the OPK's.. I guess.

to all those in the 2WW. And I agree, the 1WW IS brutal!

Sarah, Congrats!
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Originally Posted by mommytoallh View Post
Ok ladies here it is. I'm working on getting our charts on here but I don't know how. Don't worry I've asked an expert!
What is your opinion about the abbreviations? Do we want to keep them on the first page or do they take up a lot of room? I think there is a link of abbreviations at the top of the ttc forum. I was just curious what you thought.

I noticed we have success in 3's. Well lets change that this month and have success in large numbers!

eta: I took out the abbreviations, however I can add them back at a moments notice if anyone wants em!
Amy - Thanks for the new thread! I think you're right about the abbreviations. I never looked at them anyway.

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Originally Posted by Lousli View Post
Well I'm going to jump in and be the first poster on the June thread. I'm going a little nuts. For starters, I have weaned off my antidepressants and took my last one on Saturday. I'm doing surprisingly well, but I do feel a little on edge.

I'm also 7 DPO and teaching the last week of the school year (with children, next week is cleanup and such without children there) so that is making me an impatient basket case as well. Every twinge and symptom I'm wondering "Is that implantation? Am I PMS'ing? Is this a side effect of stopping my medication?"

The one week wait is brutal. And I broke down today, 7 DPO, and took a test. About 3 days earlier than I planned to!
Lousli - I am on antidepressants too, and I can't imagine weaning off of them. Recently, I've been considering increasing my dose. I imagine that I would have some jumpiness and anxiety if I were to wean off my meds, so you might be obsessing a little more this month b/c of that. I hope once you finish up school, you'll feel more like yourself.

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AFM- Still feeling good. I really, really hope this is my month. I really think it could be!
Jessica - It is so nice to see how positive you are right now. I wish some of your optimism would rub off on me! I will definitely be keeping my for you!

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Subbing So I'm waiting for midwife to get back to me on Friday, and DH contacted our HMO about meeting with his primary care provider to talk about possible male factor issues - they scheduled him for July 1st So I'm still telling myself, this is why we're starting to schedule the appt's now instead of waiting...
Justthinkin- Speaking of abbreviations and such, what does "subbing" mean? I think I've seen that in other threads too, but I don't get it. Sorry about the long wait to see the PCP! Very frustrating! That would irritate me too. It is good that you are going ahead and getting everything scheduled.

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I'm here, unfortunately. Nothing new with me. Still bleeding, but it's just spotting that's been going on for over a week now . My HPT today was barely visible, so I hope it's outof my system now. Will check again tomorrow or Thursday.

Emotionally, I'm doing better. I think the final step in my recovery is getting the tattoo I've been planning on. That might be part of the closure I need. It's really important to me. Still trying to finalize my design, but I want to wait til we meet with the tattoo artist.

Is anyone else excited for the possibility of a spring baby?? I've had babies in March, April, & May, and just *love* that time of the year. May would have to be my favorite - it's finally warming up outside & everything is turning green - I just love it!
Mollie - I'm glad you're doing better. What are you going to get for your tattoo? I have 1 tattoo now, but I've thought about getting tattoos to honor my child(ren?). I just don't know what to get. I think I'll have to wait until Nate is older to determine what would symbolize him the most.

I do think a spring baby would be nice, which is honestly one of the reasons I feel like Feb might not be our due date. DS was due in late April and born on May 1 and it was perfect. It was a great time to be pregnant and it was nice to be able to go out and do things without bundling up and without worrying about flu. I keep feeling like I'll end up being due in March/April/May anyway. I guess we'll see!

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Originally Posted by TulsiLeaf View Post
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21c5ba

just strange. I had a small bit of "something" I dunno even what it was. I had a temp drop, then it jumped up like crazy. I wiped yesterday and there was like a spot of blood on my to. I mean like a pin point. I wiped more thinking my period, and nothing. I bared down a bit and a little bit more. Then nothing. No more yesterday no more today. My temp is still high and I am 11dpo (my luteal phase is normally 11days)

It's just crazy. If it is my period, it needs to wait until Friday though.
Tulsileaf- I wouldn't worry much about one tiny little spot. Of course, I tend to spot a lot, so one tiny drop isn't much for me. Your high temp is still looking good... just keep waiting it out!

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AFM, the bleeding has finally stopped (just had a little brown today) I had some pretty sad days, but am feeling much better now that the bleeding has stopped. It really was horrible walking around shopping, school runs, etc..knowing I was losing my baby I wish I could have just stayed home and become a hermit during that time, but I have 4 other kids and life had to go on like usual. Not sure when I'll even O again, but I'm just going to wait until I start to see CM and then start the OPK's.. I guess.
Andrea - I can imagine how hard it was to continue with "life as normal" when it was everything but normal for you! It would be really hard to put on a happy face for the kids when you're going through something like that. I hope that you're getting a little time to yourself to grieve.

AFM - I didn't temp this morning and it was so weird! I still woke up around the same time and just laid there. I think my sleep is going to be total crap until I finish up a big project for work and get some more packing and stuff done at home. I've been feeling some anxiety creeping up on me and it sucks. I have a prescription for anxiety, but I won't take it during the 2ww. I haven't taken it the whole time I've been TTC anyway, but I've managed to keep anxiety at bay until recently. I'm just going to work on re-directing my energy (and my anxious thoughts) as much as possible.

Oh, DH's cousin's wife apparently had her baby last night!! She was supposed to have a home birth, but ended up with an "emergency" c-section due to a breech baby. I'm a litle confused about how they didn't know the baby was breech until last night (when I'm presuming she was in active labor), but I'll wait to get the details directly from her. Everyone else in the family thought she was crazy for wanting a home birth, and DH and I were the only ones who supported them. I'm afraid that now everyone is going to think that they were right about home births being dangerous. Oh, and the baby is a girl and she was 8 lbs, 12 oz! Big girl! It is such a wonderful blessing to have another baby in the family. I can't wait to find out what they named her!
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mommytoallh Thanks for the new thread! Good move to do away with the abbreviations.

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Originally Posted by Lousli View Post
The one week wait is brutal. And I broke down today, 7 DPO, and took a test. About 3 days earlier than I planned to!
This is me every cycle!

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Originally Posted by milosmomma View Post
I really, really hope this is my month. I really think it could be!
Im starting to feel that way too. More optimistic this month than I have been in months.

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Originally Posted by justthinkn View Post
Subbing So I'm waiting for midwife to get back to me on Friday, and DH contacted our HMO about meeting with his primary care provider to talk about possible male factor issues - they scheduled him for July 1st So I'm still telling myself, this is why we're starting to schedule the appt's now instead of waiting...
The waiting just blows! Hope everything goes well.

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Originally Posted by Mama~Love View Post
Is anyone else excited for the possibility of a spring baby?? I've had babies in March, April, & May, and just *love* that time of the year. May would have to be my favorite - it's finally warming up outside & everything is turning green - I just love it!
I would LOVE a spring baby! Hope you are doing better Mollie and taking care of yourself.

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Originally Posted by TulsiLeaf View Post
I wiped more thinking my period, and nothing. I bared down a bit and a little bit more. Then nothing. No more yesterday no more today. My temp is still high and I am 11dpo (my luteal phase is normally 11days)It's just crazy. If it is my period, it needs to wait until Friday though.
This sounds promising.

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Originally Posted by love_r4ks View Post
I had some pretty sad days, but am feeling much better now that the bleeding has stopped. It really was horrible walking around shopping, school runs, etc..knowing I was losing my baby
I remember this was the hardest part when i had my chemical preg. last year. Sounds like you are doing better. Having the other kids around gives you something to stay strong for.

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It is such a wonderful blessing to have another baby in the family. I can't wait to find out what they named her!
Congratulations on this new addition to your family! How exciting!

AFM: Monitor said peak this morning. O today or tomorrow! Woo hoo! It felt like forever!
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Mollie, glad to hear you're doing better emotionally. Do you mind sharing what kind of tattoo you want? I've wanted a tattoo for a looong time. I want something with dragonflies since they have a special meaning to me. I'm very excited for the possibility of a spring baby. March was my favorite month to have a baby out of my 4.
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Mollie - I'm glad you're doing better. What are you going to get for your tattoo? I have 1 tattoo now, but I've thought about getting tattoos to honor my child(ren?). I just don't know what to get. I think I'll have to wait until Nate is older to determine what would symbolize him the most.

I do think a spring baby would be nice, which is honestly one of the reasons I feel like Feb might not be our due date. DS was due in late April and born on May 1 and it was perfect. It was a great time to be pregnant and it was nice to be able to go out and do things without bundling up and without worrying about flu. I keep feeling like I'll end up being due in March/April/May anyway. I guess we'll see!
Here's one I really like; I'd make half of the ribbon baby blue to symbolize the pregnancy & infant loss ribbon, and make the rose a rosebud that hasn't opened up completely. I'm tossing around other ideas as well, like the loss ribbon with a heart with wings, or something.

I have one tattoo already - this one on my inner left ankle. I wanted to get more hearts that are floating up my leg with the kids' names on them.

I hope to make an appt. with the tattoo artist soon to talk about the design.
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And now it moved my ovulation date up like 9 days, which i KNOW is not right.
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And now it moved my ovulation date up like 9 days, which i KNOW is not right.
Wow, that's crazy! But based on your CF pattern, I can see why they would change it. I looked at your chart before it changed, and I was going to say that O was on CD 33 too. Looks like you were gearing up to O, but didn't earlier for some reason. Not what you want to hear, I know .
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And now it moved my ovulation date up like 9 days, which i KNOW is not right.
Based just on your temps it looks right. I wish your chart was more clear.for you.
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Tulsileaf- I agree that it looks more like the correct O date now. Not just by temps, but also CM. It appears that you had watery cm and then a dry-up after CD33. I think your chart is going to be one where you'll have to continue to wait and see what happens, unfortunately.
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Tulsileaf- I agree that it looks more like the correct O date now. Not just by temps, but also CM. It appears that you had watery cm and then a dry-up after CD33. I think your chart is going to be one where you'll have to continue to wait and see what happens, unfortunately.
im starting to think if i just have sex for 30 days straight it might work?



also, anyone know of any sex drive increasers, for ladies? natural ones.
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Tulsileaf- Maybe sex every other day for 30 days. That seems more manageable. I don't know of any way to increase sex drive. I'm sure there are herbal supplements though. For me, eating well and exercise tends to boost my sex drive.

AFM - The new cousin is named Sylvia. What a pretty name. And, my petty confession... I'm so relieved they didn't use our girl name! If we have a girl, we're going to name her after DH's grandmother (his cousin's grandmother too) and we were kind of nervous that they might use that name. I told DH we need to get pregnant soon to make sure we use the name first. Oh, and the name is Lena, by the way. If we have a girl, her name will be Lena Ruth after his grandmother & my mom (and grandmother). I love it and hope we get to use it!
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AFM - The new cousin is named Sylvia. What a pretty name. And, my petty confession... I'm so relieved they didn't use our girl name! If we have a girl, we're going to name her after DH's grandmother (his cousin's grandmother too) and we were kind of nervous that they might use that name. I told DH we need to get pregnant soon to make sure we use the name first. Oh, and the name is Lena, by the way. If we have a girl, her name will be Lena Ruth after his grandmother & my mom (and grandmother). I love it and hope we get to use it!
I have a niece named Sylvia; I always thought that was a pretty name. so glad they didn't use your name, which is lovely as well . Hope you get to use it soon too .
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Okay Callie, we REALLY need to be pregnant at the same time. The girl name we're planning on is Alina, after my great-grandmother.

(This is going to be funny and appropriate because it combines tattoos AND baby names...) DP got a big tattoo on his back last year with a J (me- Jessica...or maybe him-Jason lol), an A (for Amelia) & a Z (for Zaven) incorporated in the roots of a big maple tree (a nod to our VT heritage). This was before we'd decided that we'd have a third baby. Once the decision was made to go for #3, we figured we need to use another A or Z name. Coincidentally, around the same time, I found an old copy of my family tree and discovered that my great-grandmother's name was Alina. I love it and I think it matches Amelia perfectly. So...now that we've decided that, we're almost sure to have a Boy (if I ever get pregnant. LOL)

Also speaking of tattoos, my next tattoo is going to be "A...Z" in cool inky typewriter font. Although depending on our next child, I may need to modify it... "Aa...Z" or "A...Zz"?


TulsiLeaf- I dunno...You'd hate to burn out RIGHT before you O!

Dee- I hope this is your month!!!

Andrea & Mollie- to both of you

AFM- I'm wondering about those 2 temp peaks last week. I was thinking that they were 2 random temps on days that my room was warm, but now I'm noticing that they were 2 temps EACH (and both were after a day I didn't temp...weird). I dunno, I guess in 2 weeks it won't matter anyway...
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