At first I used those dollar store wipes. But they aren't very absorbant.
Then I made some out of flannel and they worked ok, but once DS got on solid foods I need something more grippy.
I ended up cuttin up some old towels and it works FABULOUS. Very grippy, warm, and gets him really clean.
If you make them about the size of your open hand you'll only need one per change. So have as many as you have diapiers, plus extra for poopy dipes. Plus extra if you have multiple change stations in your house.
Nothing against the person that wrote it, but wiping with a "clean" corner of the dipe can spread bacteria. I mean, I scrape off the poo from front to back as I take the dipe off. But...
As for detergent. I think the most popular is country save. Here's a link that helped me decide which to go with.
http://www.pinstripesandpolkadots.co...entchoices.htm
Hope I helped.