I don't post here very often, but I hope the collective wisdom of the group can offer me some reassurance...
I had an ultrasound yesterday (38 weeks, 3 days) to check the position of my baby because the midwife couldn't tell 100% if it was head-down. Luckily, it is, and the ultrasound tech said that, in her opinion, the baby looks like it's ready to go. Yay! I was relieved that the baby is in the right position, but she also estimated the baby's weight to be 8 lbs 12 oz. This is my first baby, so I know it's more likely to be overdue, and I'm getting very worried that it's going to be too big. I want to have a home birth, and I desperately do not want a cesarean.
How likely is it that the baby actually weighs as much as the tech estimated? My fundal height measurements are bang-on average, so I was surprised to hear that my baby might be so large. I do not have gestational diabetes. People are actually always commenting about how small my belly looks, but I think that's because I'm 5'8" tall, so my belly is probably taller and a bit less rounded than most.
That being said, my mother gave birth to my older brother on his due date, and he weighed 9 lbs 9oz, and I was born two weeks early weighing 8 lbs 10 oz, so there is a family history of largish babies. My mom is several inches shorter than me and gave birth to both of us vaginally, so I hope I'm also predisposed to be able to give birth to large babies vaginally.
Do I need to worry about losing my natural home birth? Is there anything I can *safely* do to prevent the baby from gaining too much more weight? (I doubt it.) I'm hoping that lots of sex with hubby and walking around will help bring the baby along sooner before it gets too gigantic.
Thanks for any advice or reassurance you can offer me!
I had an ultrasound yesterday (38 weeks, 3 days) to check the position of my baby because the midwife couldn't tell 100% if it was head-down. Luckily, it is, and the ultrasound tech said that, in her opinion, the baby looks like it's ready to go. Yay! I was relieved that the baby is in the right position, but she also estimated the baby's weight to be 8 lbs 12 oz. This is my first baby, so I know it's more likely to be overdue, and I'm getting very worried that it's going to be too big. I want to have a home birth, and I desperately do not want a cesarean.
How likely is it that the baby actually weighs as much as the tech estimated? My fundal height measurements are bang-on average, so I was surprised to hear that my baby might be so large. I do not have gestational diabetes. People are actually always commenting about how small my belly looks, but I think that's because I'm 5'8" tall, so my belly is probably taller and a bit less rounded than most.
That being said, my mother gave birth to my older brother on his due date, and he weighed 9 lbs 9oz, and I was born two weeks early weighing 8 lbs 10 oz, so there is a family history of largish babies. My mom is several inches shorter than me and gave birth to both of us vaginally, so I hope I'm also predisposed to be able to give birth to large babies vaginally.
Do I need to worry about losing my natural home birth? Is there anything I can *safely* do to prevent the baby from gaining too much more weight? (I doubt it.) I'm hoping that lots of sex with hubby and walking around will help bring the baby along sooner before it gets too gigantic.
Thanks for any advice or reassurance you can offer me!









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