Hi there,
I felt the same way when my son had a double-ear infection at only 6 months old. After much research on mothering in the community, I use Wally's Ear Oil- availble here in Arizona at Sprouts. It has garlic, mullein and eucalyptus oil in it. I would also keep the humidifier on at full blast. Since using Wally's, I give my LO ( almost 9 months now) the oli if I notice that his nose starts running a lot ( It seems for him that this is a precusor to a possible ear infection.) I've probably only used it twice since his original infection which was treated with antibiotics, and I have yet to use it again.
The fever was what worried me the most, I gave Motrin only when the temp was above 101 and it subsided eventually.