Dd, almost 7, has started telling "little" lies to her friends and family. I'm not sure how seriously I should take this - if it's normal, or not.
She told one friend I wouldn't let her ride her bike, when in reality, she just didnt' want to. She told another friend she had taken the charm off of her necklace so she could put a tooth (she had just lost a tooth) on it for the tooth fairy, in reality, she had removed the charm to put another one on. As she was learning to ride her bike, she told several people she could do it, before she was able to. Little things. But, I worry that it's a trend, or, indicative of self esteem issues.
I did talk to her about the importance of being truthful and that family and friends need to believe her when she says something.
Do your 6-7 yos do this? Any ideas or advice? Thanks!
She told one friend I wouldn't let her ride her bike, when in reality, she just didnt' want to. She told another friend she had taken the charm off of her necklace so she could put a tooth (she had just lost a tooth) on it for the tooth fairy, in reality, she had removed the charm to put another one on. As she was learning to ride her bike, she told several people she could do it, before she was able to. Little things. But, I worry that it's a trend, or, indicative of self esteem issues.
I did talk to her about the importance of being truthful and that family and friends need to believe her when she says something.
Do your 6-7 yos do this? Any ideas or advice? Thanks!







If I tell her that I know she took it than it turns into a "I didn't do it" power struggle when I know perfectly well she did do it. So we do the fairy thing even though she knows fairies are not real (we don't do tooth fairy, etc...) and talk about why it isn't polite to take things, and brainstorm ways that the fairy can ask to earn a quarter or something along those lines.