Originally Posted by mom2happy
Almost 7 weeks pp and NO way.
Id rather be on this website than dtd at this point in my life.
When I am nursing my estrogen is so low Im like a non sexual being.
I dont even cry or really get sad easily. Its kind of cool because Im emotionally the most stable ever when Im nursing.
But sex.... nah
I co sleep and have 3 kids so there isnt a possible time anyway.
It works out because Dh has been working around the clock. He doesnt get home till after bed.
I picture a glass of red wine and sitting out on the deck one night this summer together and just maybe something will happen. I dont think there is any reason to rush unless he's really getting anxious.
Oh- was this my post?
Well, I guess he got anxious. He was awful nice on Tues. when he got home from work. I really had no choice, but boy it hurt really bad and we had to stop. I dont remember the hurting part, just the not wanting it part.
If it didnt hurt it wouldnt have been bad.
It must be hormones, but when I am breastfeeding for the first few months I cant transition from mommy to sexy mama and then breastfeed and leak milk everywhere 5 minutes later.
Also, a little chubby right now I couldnt feel sexy no matter what.
I know theres the love part, but for me thats cuddling or being close.
(Of course thats impossible w/ Dh because if that doesnt lead to anything- its pointless.)
To dtd and like it I NEED to feel attractive or its doesnt work.
Thats my update - Atleast the ice is broken.
Oh and in case none of you ladies knew.. astroglide now has a paraben free version. (I went to the drug store the day after so Id be prepared for the next attack)