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@dara: absolutely! don't let that info get you down. As far as I know not diltaing often has a lot to do with the surrounding circumstances i.e. stressfull atmosphere that makes it hard for the woman to relax. I think Ina May Gaskin calls it the sphincter law. you might find a clip of her talking about this on youtube. would look for the link myself, but have to go (child is crying)