Based on everything I have read this woman a)suffers from mental illness of some sort b) was using drugs and alcohol and c) sought medical care not once but on three different times to see if the twins were alive.
Now having read everything, I do believe she should be charged with a crime, not just for killing her child, and yes I believe she is completely responsible for his death, but negligent in the fact she most likely refused to have a surgical birth because she was friggin high and drunk.
Some people say that the surgical birth alone could have killed her babies, well, had she had the csection the day she was told she needed it, there is not a doubt in my mind they would have lived. It doesnt take that long to pull them out and begin resusitatoin measures. Even on weak, fragile babies. I doubt she refused a csection for a scar, but because she was on coke. She probably knew that their were risks and that they would find out and probably charge her with a crime. She even went to an additional place to see if the babies were alive. Umm, ok, well why would she do that? Because she had been snorting coke all night or smoking crack -- this would definitely effect fetal movement.
As a mother of a child, whose birthmother was reckless, I really dont have a problem with her tail end sitting in a jail cell. Why write letters of support to a woman who is not parenting any of her children, doesnt use birthcontrol, acts negligent in medical care, and is doing illicit drugs while pregnant. Sorry, but no way can I write letters of encouragement to this woman. She should be locked up in a jail cell or a mental institution with her reproductive organs gone. The living child is going to be messed up for life.
While I am not for court ordered surgeries, I do think that if you go to a hospital and are told your full term, viable fetus is going to die if not born soon, whether by induction, surgical birth, etc -- and you choose to do NOTHING, and that child dies, well I think you committed a crime. You make a choice to rather have your baby die to avoid having a surgical proceedure, well that is pretty messed up to start with, so face the music -- even if that means a jail cell, losing your child or other children, or being sent to the mental institution. I just have no empathy or compassion for her wreckless, negligent behavior.