have you asked yourself what you would do IF there is anything wrong with baby?
because if termination isnt an option then maybe just dont test and see what happens or wait for the amnio which normally has slightly better results as far as m/c,repeat tests being needed etc
if it is an option and u'd rather do it sooner than later then maybe cvs is the best route for u
my result for this pg was 1:15 which was based on the nuchal thickness scan (she was also a realllllly difficult baby to catch in a good angle it took an hour, little wriggler!) and blood tests, that result was very high and worrying for a 24yr old especially as at my age it starts off at like 1:2000 so I chose to have an amnio at 15 weeks 1 day, cvs wasn't an option for me at that stage, im sure had it been the other way around i wouldve rushed into a cvs but looking back im glad i had amnio instead. blood tests alone arent really reliable - they only take into account what your hormone levels are on that day, we are allll different and our levels fluctuate. mine were all rock bottom
my daughter's neck was 2.9mm thick which is in the high risk catergory, but when i look at her profile in the picture we got she just looked like her daddys profile lol
also she had/has a nasal bone - they dont take that into account in the uk for some reason - even though only 1 in 5 babies with downs etc will have a nasal bone and theyre usually shorter, so bare in mind that slight differences in the way ur baby and blood results are measured from hospital to hospital can have a massive effect on ur ratio
i really REALLLLLLLLLLLLYYYY feel for you, i spent the whole time between getting the initial screen results/having amnio/getting results screaming into a pillow in hysterics making all kinds of bargains with all kinds of gods and forces and powers that be
fortunately for me I got the phone call to tell me that she is absolutley fine, i fell down crying in the street with joy
at every scan since she has been developing up along the average lines on the measurement charts, a perfectly normal average wonderfully boring baby
you have an 80% chance of your story turning out like mine has so far mama
i was told to prepare for the worst, that things didnt look too great and was even booked on for a termination, then suddenly it all changed - they got the result and said "actually your results werent THAT low you're fine see ya later bye bye go have ur baby"
so as bad as it seems now the chanceS are you're gonna be fine and wonder what all the stressing and fuss was about. i can't say 100% that your LO is ok but how many mommas can say that their LO's are until theyre actually born anyway? at least you know so far ur 80% certain and just gotta go smooth out that last 20 IYKWIM
don't worry about people judging you for whatever choices you make, i for one can say they nobody can give an opinion on this unless theyve been there - it's deffo "you have to live it to get it" senario and whatever you choose to do will be the right thing, what is meant to be will be, so feel happy that ur choices are the right ones for u when you make them.
goodluck
