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18 month old potty learning

post #1 of 4
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My daughter is 18 months. When she started patting her diaper whenever she peed/pooed and asking to be changed whenever she was wet or dirty I got a toilet seat and a little Ikea potty. She loves to sit on both of them, and will frequently ask to sit on one or the other (or will go back and forth constantly).

I want to encourage her, but she's not making the connection between sitting on the toilet/potty and actually DOING anything there. She'll pee on the floor or ask for a diaper before doing anything on the potty or toilet.

She sees me on the toilet, I tell her what we're doing and encourage her to try when I'm done (or sit on the potty if I'm on the toilet).

How else do I help her make that connection? Is it something that will come on it's own with age?

Also- because she's so young, I'm not doing the "all or nothing" approach, I'm worried it will make it not fun and she'll stop trying entirely. And because she's so interested as it is I'm not planning on a reward system. I want her to do it because SHE wants to. I just need a gentle way to help her realize what the potty is for.
post #2 of 4
Have her dolls and animals use it.

When you know she's going in her diaper, sit her on the potty in her diaper anyway.

When she poops in her diaper, dump the poop from the diaper into the toilet (everyone should be doing this anyway, btw) and mention that poop goes in the potty.

Comment about her using her diaper as though it was an accident, even if she asks for a diaper. "You peed in your diaper? You'll make it to the potty next time, let's clean you up." (This one is more for you to practice.)
post #3 of 4
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Dolls and animals- good idea! I'll try that.
I'll try putting her on in her diaper. I think getting the diaper off is too much interruption if she tells me she's going but just sitting on the potty will probably help.

I already put poop in the toilet (we cloth diaper) but she still looks at me like I'm crazy while I do it, haha.

Thanks for the suggestions!
post #4 of 4
DS4 is doing this now. We use primarily cloth and he just started trying to take his diaper off when he pees.
We periodliclly sits on the potty we call this phase "potty orientation "
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