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Poll Results: Did you have second thoughts about your child's name(s)?

 
  • 41% (32)
    No, we were always sure after naming.
  • 40% (31)
    Yes, but only slight doubts and briefly.
  • 18% (14)
    Yes, for a year or more.
77 Total Votes  
post #21 of 23
My dd is 2.5 and I still have second thoughts about her name. I like it, my dh likes it, dd seems to like it, and I think it suits her, but we went against my dh's family traditions in giving her the name, it's a foreign name to the fairly homogeneous culture in which we live, and pronouncing it correctly is next to impossible for most people here. (It has a 'th' in it, which does not occur in the language of the country where we live. Oh, and it's first letter is not traditionally included in the alphabet here.)

I'm a foreigner in the country where I live and every time I need to give my name for some bureaucratic thing, there's a huge scene. No one will even listen to me spell it. The always want to see my documents directly. And my name is pretty straightforward compared to hers. Now every time it happens, I think, "Great, I've signed my daughter up for this? What were we thinking?!"

The culture here is changing, there are more and more immigrants and I'm hoping that by the time my dd is in school there will be a few other kids with interesting names.

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Originally Posted by nextcommercial View Post
She told me when she was five "Sometimes you just want a seaworld mug with your name on it ya know!!!!" <--through tears.
I fear hearing something like that when dd gets older.
post #22 of 23
I don't really like the name we gave my son. I don't feel it's "him," and I think some of our other contenders would have been better. But what's done is done,.
post #23 of 23
We named our daughter Madeleine Isabella. The name is beautiful and it fits her, I realize that now.

We had settled on her name prior to her birth, then she was born and I looked at her. She wasn't a Madeleine. I wanted to drop it and call her Isabella (the spanish pronouncation) because she was so dark. My husband wouldn't hear of it. He is slightly OCD and the name was settled and that was her name.

It was the only name we agreed on while pregnant. He shot down my top name, Maeve. I cried for months because that was her name.

It took me about 9 months to actually like her name. Now I love it. It's beautiful and traditional. But part of me wanted it to be something kinda different.
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