We had a midwife assisted home birth. 3rd stage was precipitous and baby fell onto the covered carpeted floor (splash!) from my kneeling position. He is totally fine and a very sweet happy baby, now just over 6 months :-)
We noticed a few months ago that his forehead shape is not symmetric. Viewed from the top, one side is slightly more forward than the other side. I have been following this and it seems to be stable ... one side is just a little more forward. Baby is getting lots of "sitting up" time and since this is the front of the head, it is not sleep position related. The shape problem was caused by the drop during delivery or just a random head shape thing from how the bones seated together.
His doctor is not concerned about it, and suggested that our baby might not meet treatment guidelines for a head mold. DH is not concerned about it cosmetically. I worry lots about how the head shape will look when he grows up. We had the doctor order a head x-ray and refer us to the local university medical center to ask about treatment (a band/mold for the head.) It sounded like a great idea until I found out the specialist is a pediatric neurosurgeon. I am having difficulty taking my baby to a ped neuro even though surgery is not the proposed treatment. It just makes me so stressed out to take him to a dr that does very major invasive surgery.
Has anyone had a head xray for their baby? how did that go? Has anyone considered or done head mold/band for their baby? How was it? I have canceled the head xray for now and need to make a decision in the next few weeks.
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Update:
Thank you all for your concern and support! We went on to the doctors appointment. (100 degree weather that day!) The short answer is, everything is good.

We are not going to do any treatment. The doctor feels that the head shape issue is positional - a tiny flat spot on the back of the head corresponds to the "bump out" or the front. The doctor expects it to go away, though he also said kids in school are not going to notice... kind of a mixed message. DS is now at an age where he is crawling, sitting, etc most of the time, so the positional issue is not going to get worse. There is no followup.
Now, a word of gratitude. We had our baby boy after 2 years of testing and infertility treatments. One doctor suggested IVF, we went to another doctor for IUI, and have our beautiful baby. It is hard to not be scared for every little possibility, when the baby took so long to create.
The pediatric waiting room was crowded. There was a kid with a broken arm, a 10-12 year old boy with toe walking, a boy in a wheelchair with ventilator, etc. And a dozen other parents with children with non-obvious issues. In the adult area, there was even a prisoner in chains, accompanied by 2 officers. I felt a little bad going to the doctor with my tiny concern, when there are so many children with serious, longterm medical issues they are facing. When I was a teenager, a friend in a wheelchair told me that able bodied people "take walking for granted." Something we need to be reminded of, sometimes.
We noticed a few months ago that his forehead shape is not symmetric. Viewed from the top, one side is slightly more forward than the other side. I have been following this and it seems to be stable ... one side is just a little more forward. Baby is getting lots of "sitting up" time and since this is the front of the head, it is not sleep position related. The shape problem was caused by the drop during delivery or just a random head shape thing from how the bones seated together.
His doctor is not concerned about it, and suggested that our baby might not meet treatment guidelines for a head mold. DH is not concerned about it cosmetically. I worry lots about how the head shape will look when he grows up. We had the doctor order a head x-ray and refer us to the local university medical center to ask about treatment (a band/mold for the head.) It sounded like a great idea until I found out the specialist is a pediatric neurosurgeon. I am having difficulty taking my baby to a ped neuro even though surgery is not the proposed treatment. It just makes me so stressed out to take him to a dr that does very major invasive surgery.
Has anyone had a head xray for their baby? how did that go? Has anyone considered or done head mold/band for their baby? How was it? I have canceled the head xray for now and need to make a decision in the next few weeks.
_______________
Update:
Thank you all for your concern and support! We went on to the doctors appointment. (100 degree weather that day!) The short answer is, everything is good.
Now, a word of gratitude. We had our baby boy after 2 years of testing and infertility treatments. One doctor suggested IVF, we went to another doctor for IUI, and have our beautiful baby. It is hard to not be scared for every little possibility, when the baby took so long to create.
The pediatric waiting room was crowded. There was a kid with a broken arm, a 10-12 year old boy with toe walking, a boy in a wheelchair with ventilator, etc. And a dozen other parents with children with non-obvious issues. In the adult area, there was even a prisoner in chains, accompanied by 2 officers. I felt a little bad going to the doctor with my tiny concern, when there are so many children with serious, longterm medical issues they are facing. When I was a teenager, a friend in a wheelchair told me that able bodied people "take walking for granted." Something we need to be reminded of, sometimes.










