Hello. I hope it's okay to ask a couple questions.
My babies have all been born in different maternal positions. My first baby, a boy, was over 9 lbs and had mild shoulder dystocia. I delivered in a supported 3/4 squat in a tub. He was freed by applying suprapubic pressure after a few scary moments of trying gentle traction.
My next two girls were smaller and didn't have any serious problems (delivered in bed, sitting up with one, and side-lying with the other).
My last baby was another boy, and I was worried again about having a big baby and stuck shoulders. I decided to push on hands and knees from the outset. Well, he ended up having the worse case of SD yet. His head was purple and bruised, his eyes were bloodshot, his collar bone was broken and he was very traumatized (wouldn't nurse, didn't cry or open his eyes, etc.). It was very scary. Oddly, he ended up not being as big as his older brother, and was in fact, only 3 ounces larger than his sisters.
Could there be something anatomically odd about my pelvis, perhaps relating to the shape of my pubic bone? The suprapubic pressure was such an easy fix. It was a bit tricky in the water, but once applied, it worked immediately. Baby flew out. But with the hands and knees pushing (trying to take advantage of the Gaskin maneuver position), suprapubic pressure wasn't done. Obviously I could have flipped onto my back, but I think my midwife was just sure that the Gaskin move would work so she didn't suggest it. It did, but it took much longer and caused much more damage.
I'm pregnant again, so of course, I'm having all kinds of anxiety about this newest baby. I'm just wondering if I should stop trying to be so "progressive" with my laboring and just sit in the bed like every other woman in America! It seems counter-intuitive, but for some reason, my body seems to birth best in that way, and I'm just curious about the possibility that my pelvis/pubic bone is to blame.
My babies have all been born in different maternal positions. My first baby, a boy, was over 9 lbs and had mild shoulder dystocia. I delivered in a supported 3/4 squat in a tub. He was freed by applying suprapubic pressure after a few scary moments of trying gentle traction.
My next two girls were smaller and didn't have any serious problems (delivered in bed, sitting up with one, and side-lying with the other).
My last baby was another boy, and I was worried again about having a big baby and stuck shoulders. I decided to push on hands and knees from the outset. Well, he ended up having the worse case of SD yet. His head was purple and bruised, his eyes were bloodshot, his collar bone was broken and he was very traumatized (wouldn't nurse, didn't cry or open his eyes, etc.). It was very scary. Oddly, he ended up not being as big as his older brother, and was in fact, only 3 ounces larger than his sisters.
Could there be something anatomically odd about my pelvis, perhaps relating to the shape of my pubic bone? The suprapubic pressure was such an easy fix. It was a bit tricky in the water, but once applied, it worked immediately. Baby flew out. But with the hands and knees pushing (trying to take advantage of the Gaskin maneuver position), suprapubic pressure wasn't done. Obviously I could have flipped onto my back, but I think my midwife was just sure that the Gaskin move would work so she didn't suggest it. It did, but it took much longer and caused much more damage.
I'm pregnant again, so of course, I'm having all kinds of anxiety about this newest baby. I'm just wondering if I should stop trying to be so "progressive" with my laboring and just sit in the bed like every other woman in America! It seems counter-intuitive, but for some reason, my body seems to birth best in that way, and I'm just curious about the possibility that my pelvis/pubic bone is to blame.










