how the heck is this...

[lilangelmelanie]

How is this supposed to work, when the days we NEED to be BDing my hubby is too tired to even know I'm in the room *sigh* Guess I'm out for another month.

[MaerynPearl]

are you keeping him in the know about when it is time to do it to make a baby and when its just because you want to?

If so, he may have performance anxiety. If hes totally on the ball for having a baby... its fine to just not tell him when you are fertile (I do NOT condone lying to him or tricking him if he is not OK with making a baby though!)

[lilangelmelanie]

He is willing on the baby part and I'm not telling him anything about my cycles because of that reason. In fact we've just went on with our sex life like we aren't trying (though I am VERY aware of when we do and do not BD during fertile times)

[MaerynPearl]

Originally Posted by lilangelmelanie

He is willing on the baby part and I'm not telling him anything about my cycles because of that reason. In fact we've just went on with our sex life like we aren't trying (though I am VERY aware of when we do and do not BD during fertile times)

Thats good... perhaps he can smell it on you? (not kidding, our hormones change THAT much and subconsciously he may get it)

Try seducing him? lol... I know even when DF is "tired" sometimes I can get him in the mood and he will overlook it. Of course, if he still insists I just give up and go a day without... he does the same to/for me. Never force him but sometimes a little prodding helps!

[lilangelmelanie]

thanks. all of this has been with me trying to seduce him. sad thing is. I was more disappointed I didnt get sex rather than the BDing not happening. but now that my chances of conceiving this month are dwindling quickly, It makes me more sad about that.