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I just found out my Dad has cancer

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I don't know how to say this. I just got a phone call from my Dad. He had his annual checkup last week. He's always been ridiculously healthy for a man of this age with his history, diet, and habits but last week was different.

My Dad was just diagnosed with prostate cancer.

I don't know what to do. I can't stop shaking or crying. I've already lost one father. I can't handle losing another - not this way.
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I'm sorry. I've known several people will prostate cancer and they did recover from it, so I wish the best for your father.
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I'm so sorry. My mom was diagnosed with colon cancer last year. It was such a shock--she's the healthiest person I know. I was a mess when I first found out. Do you have someone you can talk to? Someone who can hold you while you cry? I remember walking around the neighborhood with my baby in the moby, crying on the phone with my little brother. We spent lots of days like that last summer. DD and I went to Mass a lot, too. I don't personally believe in Catholicism, but my mom does, so in a way I felt like it was something I could do to help her even though I was halfway across the country.

Finding out my mom had cancer was the scariest, most awful moment in my life. I really feel for you. Try to take care of yourself as best you can. It helped me a lot when we first found out to hear about people who beat cancer. If it helps you, my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, but now is cancer free. I wish your father and your family the best.
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