My good friend is refusing to come over because of our family cloth and bucket system I'm not sure how to deal with this.
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6/25/10 at 11:45pm
I do have paper tp available. I totally agree that it would be weird to use someone elses family cloth.
My friend just has an issue because the used family cloth is in a bucket next to the toilet. We have a cover for the bucket, but often dd1 and dd2 forget to put it back on. She said she is also icked out by the bucket we use for going number 2. We use it after much research that squatting when defecating helps digestion and reduces cancer risk. I rinse out the buckets after use, but she just can't handle it. I wonder if she had some sort of issue growing up regarding defecation? IDK? She seems pretty weirded out
If someone refused to come over to my house over it...I don't think they're the kind of friend I would want anyways honestly. Put the poo bucket in the shower or somewhere, make sure nothing stinks and the lid is on the cloth holder bucket. And if she's a real friend that should be more than plenty for you to do to keep her happy (unless she has ocd or some other major issues).