hi mods i specifically decided to keep this in the single moms forum.
so dd a few months short of 8 wants to have her own room, and since we moved she got the loft.
it was a time of mourning for me because we were still cosleeping till she 'kicked' me out. i love hanging out with her. we are a v. close team.
its been a bittersweet time for me lately, because while i celebrate her growing up i miss my little child who so wanted mommy. she now rarely hangs out with me. she hangs out with my friends. and doesnt want me to hang out with her in a social situation. she i think is done with nursing. maybe nurses once a month for like ten seconds. but we were still cosleeping.
now she has her own space. we both had our radios on and doing our own thing.
and what do i have now. a little girl who came down and is sprawled on the bed with me 
there goes 'ma i hope you dont mind but i want to be alone'. 
we shall see if she spends the night here or at her dad's. its his night. but during the holidays its v. loose. she makes the decision depending on what's going on with us.
anyways... i see so many moms dealing with such trying situations, i wanted to share a lighter moment with you all.
so dd a few months short of 8 wants to have her own room, and since we moved she got the loft.
it was a time of mourning for me because we were still cosleeping till she 'kicked' me out. i love hanging out with her. we are a v. close team.
its been a bittersweet time for me lately, because while i celebrate her growing up i miss my little child who so wanted mommy. she now rarely hangs out with me. she hangs out with my friends. and doesnt want me to hang out with her in a social situation. she i think is done with nursing. maybe nurses once a month for like ten seconds. but we were still cosleeping.
now she has her own space. we both had our radios on and doing our own thing.
and what do i have now. a little girl who came down and is sprawled on the bed with me there goes 'ma i hope you dont mind but i want to be alone'. we shall see if she spends the night here or at her dad's. its his night. but during the holidays its v. loose. she makes the decision depending on what's going on with us.anyways... i see so many moms dealing with such trying situations, i wanted to share a lighter moment with you all.
