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will this work?

post #1 of 6
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dd is 8 mo. mama is very very tired, and also needs some cuddling time with daddy, plus we need time to watch movies and have a (nonwhispered) conversation or two..
the dvd is in our room, with our king bed that we've been sharing, mostly happily till now. little kickypants is now very disturbed by sound, movement (ahem) etc. and i'm starting to feel like a prisoner in bed-- she ONLY wants to sleep right smack up against me and then wakes up if i move or speak!
so.. what if we put a twin mattress on the floor in another room ('her' room that we don't use, of course) and i nurse her to sleep in there (round 8), and go get her when she wakes up (around 10)? is there any reason not to try this? she's not really the roll-around sort once she's asleep. i'm just tired of having to stop any movie watching or activity once she begins to stir.
putting the media set up in another room is NOT an option due to enormous furniture situations. we have a crib but it's a drop side and i fear it. it's basically a diaper changing station. i don't want to let her sleep in it. i'd feel safer with her on the floor. i suppose i could side rail it but sound is what wakes her up, too.. that wouldn't solve much. not opposed to keeping her in the bed, we just need a little time. getting desperate.
post #2 of 6
Sounds like a great solution to me mama. I would try it!
post #3 of 6
We recently put a crib mattress on the floor next to our bed for similar reasons. I nurse him to sleep there--he takes his naps there now and starts the night there, although he often winds up in bed with us at some point when I can't stand the thought of getting up and down again to nurse. I still wonder if we wake him though with noise. . .any noise seems to disturb him. Then again, I think that being in another room would disturb him too. But that's us. . .for you I would say its worth a shot, even if you just get a couple hours at the beginning of the night for you and DH.
post #4 of 6
Yes, I would definitely do that. Oh wait, I DID do that, and it has been great!!
post #5 of 6
go for it. i did it with my second child and we definately loved the few free hours in the evening.
post #6 of 6
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we're setting it all up this weekend! thank you mamas. i'm crossing every finger i have that it will go over well!
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