I'm really not sure where to put this, but since it does have a financial aspect to it I thought this might be a good place.
My dh got stuck with my old car when I moved on to a minivan. It's a nice car, but he hates it (mostly because it's nice, actually) and has asked me to sell it while he is deployed. He would have liked to have done it before he left but it just didn't work out.
We do have a loan on the car. We bought it new about 4 years ago and owe about $7000 on it. It is supposedly worth about $16,000 if we sell it privately. I talked to a used car dealership and they offered me $12,000 for it. Trade in is supposed to be about $14,000 but I am not interested in buying another car.
Part of me (a BIG part!) wants to just sell it to the dealership. It would pay the car off and then some. But if I sold it privately (and was able to get $16,000 for it) obviously that is a big payoff for not a whole lot of work. But then I am here alone with my four kids, pregnant, and we are military and the car is titled in a different state and the bank we financed through is not local so I don't even know how that would work. It's intimidating!
So, all of that for two questions. One- what would you do?
and two- would it make sense to "refinance" (i guess?) the car at our local bank so they are in possession of the title to make it easier if I do decide to sell it privately? And I guess there's a three, how do you even go about selling a car privately? I have no idea and googling is only getting me so far. 
My dh got stuck with my old car when I moved on to a minivan. It's a nice car, but he hates it (mostly because it's nice, actually) and has asked me to sell it while he is deployed. He would have liked to have done it before he left but it just didn't work out.
We do have a loan on the car. We bought it new about 4 years ago and owe about $7000 on it. It is supposedly worth about $16,000 if we sell it privately. I talked to a used car dealership and they offered me $12,000 for it. Trade in is supposed to be about $14,000 but I am not interested in buying another car.
Part of me (a BIG part!) wants to just sell it to the dealership. It would pay the car off and then some. But if I sold it privately (and was able to get $16,000 for it) obviously that is a big payoff for not a whole lot of work. But then I am here alone with my four kids, pregnant, and we are military and the car is titled in a different state and the bank we financed through is not local so I don't even know how that would work. It's intimidating!
So, all of that for two questions. One- what would you do?
and two- would it make sense to "refinance" (i guess?) the car at our local bank so they are in possession of the title to make it easier if I do decide to sell it privately? And I guess there's a three, how do you even go about selling a car privately? I have no idea and googling is only getting me so far. 







: turned up a couple days later of course) turned out I needed temp plates (paper) in order to sell it. Who knew. Thats also how I found out I could keep my plates for my new car (new law woot woot. saved me $100).