We recently moved to a new area and because I'm so far along, the midwives won't allow a homebirth (what i really wanted this time!) so my husband and I are planning a uc. It will have to be a pretend "oops" as my parents were freaking over the idea of a midwife attended homebirth. Im confident in my body and my ability-and if I change my mind, the hospital is only 10 min away.
I've looked through all the posts and links and found them pretty informative. My questions are-what books are a "must have on hand"? Like for tricky situations and whatnot-I have a limited budget and a crappy library so I'd like to find the most useful 2 or 3 to buy.
Second, what equipment do I need? I know you can get by with a shoelace and tshirt-but I'd rather not. Do I just buy a premade birth kit? I don't even know what some of those things are for!
I'm in NC so if anyone has any advice on getting the BC or a great pediatrician in the Asheville area (not family to family bc they don't take insurance and I cant pay out of pocket) that would be great.
I'm planning on using hypnobabies for this birth as I did for my first.
I've looked through all the posts and links and found them pretty informative. My questions are-what books are a "must have on hand"? Like for tricky situations and whatnot-I have a limited budget and a crappy library so I'd like to find the most useful 2 or 3 to buy.
Second, what equipment do I need? I know you can get by with a shoelace and tshirt-but I'd rather not. Do I just buy a premade birth kit? I don't even know what some of those things are for!
I'm in NC so if anyone has any advice on getting the BC or a great pediatrician in the Asheville area (not family to family bc they don't take insurance and I cant pay out of pocket) that would be great.
I'm planning on using hypnobabies for this birth as I did for my first.







