A friend of mine smoked during her pregnancy. She just delivered a healthy child, and she has a healthy and bright toddler during which she smoked during pregnancy as well. I only found this out because we were having her and her DH over, our DH's went to go visit the room and I tried to politely steer her towards an alternate activity (rather than asking her to wait outside LOL) and she told me she still does it!
I know she quit towards the end just in case they tested her at delivery.
That's really my big fear, having a + drug test. I am seeing an OB and will deliver in a hospital, and I think they can test you if they feel like it.
Although, I am a white professional that nobody would ever DREAM used mj, (seriously, I look as straight and narrow as it gets) but I am also the sole income provider for my family so I feel like I have a lot riding on NOT having any MJ related legal issues arise. So I am not doing it now.
I was considering having some budder this weekend, but I started lightly spotting so reconsidered and will not. I think I might get paranoid seeing the spotting.
But, I really think that doing something once a week or so, one time, I really cannot see that causing much harm, unless it is something KNOWN to have high risk. I feel like if there was any strong effect that mj had on fetus, all those "don't do drugs" commercials would be filled with pictures of "fetal marijuana syndrome" babies.
Honestly, if there is anything wrong with this pregnancy, I will blame it on the Class C drug I was taking when I conceived and for the first few weeks until I found out. (It took me so long to get pregnant I didn't really think it was going to happen and went back on meds I needed)