It is just cruel to get a temp rise like that and a BFN (chart stalking). But at 10dpo, I'd try not to get discouraged. You aren't sick, are you? Those temps are sky high!Library
Back up a bit on the temp for you, too, right? Nice! When are you going to test? Yikes!Bunny
Stay away, AF!Scarlett
Watch out for the woman armed with many ovulation-detecting weapons! I'm with the others on the CBE monitor being sketchy. Honestly, I never did find a fully reliable way to detect LH/O, so that's why I'm now a big fan of ultrasounds. I hope you get better results.Wehrli, would you please move me to waiting to know?
There is no point pretending that this is a non-trying cycle when I am already thinking all the time about whether or not I am pregnant (at 3dpo--sigh). Coco's experience has me freaking out a bit about twins, since I'm pretty sure that if I don't conceive this cycle, my RE will try to convince me to go on Clomid, and I'll be very tempted to follow his advice. I just want to be pregnant, already!
But as I've mentioned before, we (esp DP) are not prepared to parent three children.
My new thinking (which seems alternatively inspired and truly insane) is that if I do have twins, I could allow my KD and his wife (one of my best friends who is struggling hard with infertility) to adopt one of them. But holy crap! I am not, unfortunately, one of those altruistic, zen women who be a surrogate and not be plagued by self-doubt and remorse. And here is the strangest part: how would I choose which one to keep and which one to allow KD and his wife to adopt? I know that I'm slightly nuts for even thinking about this, but in a way, I feel I have to, if I'm going to use fertility medications of any kind. I don't think I could live with myself if I had a selective reduction of a twin when my KD and dear friend likely can't have their own child.
So here's a strange QOTD
for anyone who wants to discuss this. Assuming that you already had (or were pregnant with) your ideal number of children, would/could you ever be a surrogate for someone else? If so, under what conditions?