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From potty to toilet?

post #1 of 7
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We've had some major breakthroughs with my daughter lately.

For example, there's a "family room" bathroom at our mall. Which is basically a large single toilet room with a change table. It's huge. Big enough to bring your cart into, with still plenty of room to walk around. She will instantle pee on this toilet. Several times now, she will leave the house dry, pee at the mall, come home dry, and pee in her potty as soon as we get home.

She's been coming home dry for months now (if we're gone for less than a couple hours), but peeing in public toilets is new, as is the taking herself on such a regular basis.

If left naked from the waist down while at home, she will take herself to the potty for poops every time, and pees the majority of the time. We still have misses but they're almost always outside, or after 2-3 successful pee catches if she's had a lot to drink. Poop misses are almost non-existant (though they do happen).

If she's got ANYTHING covering her butt though, a miss is guaranteed if we don't offer pottytunity. She will not tell me if she's wet.

Last week we were outside when I caught her doing the "riding an invisible horse" stand, so I asked her "peepee?" she shook her head no and said "that", then signed for poop. I rushed her to her potty and she pooped immediately. After dumping it it the toilet (she does this herself), she immedialy followed the poop with a pee (also in the potty).

This was not only the first time that she signed poop, but it was also the first time that she told me (ever) that she needed to use the potty. She's 21 months old, but not very verbal at all, so this was HUGE for her.

So now (because we've been having such great success) I want to start offering the toilet more, and weaning away the potty (which btw, we keep in the living room). We do put her on the toilet, but that often ends up with her refusing to sit. Sometimes she'll pee, but she will quickly ask to come off. At this point, I would just be happy with her using the potty in our bathroom.

We always take her with us when we need to use it (and sit her on her potty -we have two. The bblp stays in the living room, the bbpc stays in the bathroom). If she needs to, she will use it.

She has never in her life pooped on the toilet.

So how do I go about the transition from potty to toilet? She's doing so well all by herself that I'm afraid that she'll take dome steps backwards if I try to control when and where she eliminates.

Suggestions?
post #2 of 7
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Wow, that was long. If you're still with me, thank you for reading. LOL!
post #3 of 7
I'm trying to remember how we transitioned my son to the big toilet. I think we used big potties when out and small potties at home until he seemed interested in using the toilet at home too. We got a step so he could climb up on his own. Seems to me it was when he started consistently initiating the potty trips. It was nice not to deal with the little potties anymore, that is for sure. Potty reducer didn't fit our (long) toilet but that might be a help too. I didn't push it, and it happened pretty organically. (He was not really ECed... started offering potty at about 15 months and he was out of dipes by 21 months or so.)
post #4 of 7
Yay, congrats on all the success; that is awesome!

Personally, though...and having followed your saga for a while, lol...I would not mess with something that's working. At least not yet. I would wait till she's more consistent with it, especially when clothed.

That said, do you have a potty reducer? I got the Potette Plus seat because it's shaped like the BBLP, and DD prefers it to the BBLP. She's been pooping in the adult toilet pretty much exclusively since she was little, though. Just because I would prefer to put her on there since the cleanup is easier, so now she sits on her potty if she needs to pee but asks for the toilet if she needs to poop. But definitely get a stool and a seat reducer, anyway, and maybe the new gear will make her interested in using the toilet.
post #5 of 7
We have the Bumbo Potty insert and it is awesome, I originally got it cause it had a smaller hole than most others and looked more comfy and as a bonus it fits on our elongated toilet!
DD loves it and will gladly sit and do her thing, she loves to here the tinkle as her pee hits the water, she will also use the toilet by itself but I have to hold her then!
We just had a potty break though as well Congratulations
post #6 of 7
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Originally Posted by lisavark View Post
Personally, though...and having followed your saga for a while, lol...I would not mess with something that's working. At least not yet. I would wait till she's more consistent with it, especially when clothed.
LOL!! This is kind of what I was thinking as well, but I'd really like to not have the potty in the middle of the living room all the time either, you know? And she HATES being offered or asked to sit on it, unless she actually does need to pee. Then she'll happily sit and do her thing.

I use the bjorn reducer at home (we have elongated toilets), and the potette plus for out and about.

I would even love it if I could catch just ONE poop in the toilet, but at this point I don't know how I'd go about doing that. She just takes herself to the bblp when she needs to go.

I wonder if a stool might help? I once saw a cool sort of step ladder that sits against the toilet, but I haven't been able to find them since.
post #7 of 7
i've always been the kind of EC'er who lets the kids lead, for the most part, especially when it comes to the transition to grad. with all three of my kids, at some point i started asking "do you want the little potty or the big potty?" when it was time to go, and then let them choose. partially i did that because yes/no questions like "do you need to pee?" are more often met with "no!" than "do you want to pee on the little potty or the big one?" - anyway, at first it was always the little, then eventually they started sometimes choosing the big, until it was exclusively the big. my youngest, who is 26 months and has been a grad for... i dunno, 6+ months? still is about 50/50 whether she chooses little or big, depending on her mood. though she never has a problem with big potties when they're the only choice, like at someone else's house or in a store. we don't use seat reducers, though, because i'm too lazy to schlepp them out into the real world (i hate carrying a diaper bag) so i prefer they just figure out how to use the regular seat so they can do it at home and while out in the same way.

since she really digs the potty in the family bathroom at the mall, though, you might try saying something the next time you're at the mall and she's going like "hey, this potty is a lot like the big potty at our house!" and then follow up at home with "hey, this potty is a lot like the potty at the mall!"

since you also have a baby, i would say that once baby has enough head control to sit up, if your big girl hasn't already transitioned to the big potty you could start putting baby on the seat reducer. then she will see that there's nothing scary about the big potty even for little people, and might be more inclined to use it. that all depends on whether she's the kind of kid who 'wants to be like baby' or who wants to differentiate and 'be a big kid' though. if she's wanting to differentiate, then putting baby on the little potty and saying something like "when you're too small to sit on the big potty you use the little potty, but when you start to grow bigger you can use the big potty like mom and dad" (or whatever... i haven't had coffee yet so i'm not being very creative ) will probably work better.

congrats on all the success! it sounds like she's doing *great*!!!
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