post #21 of 21
First of all, you are the one giving birth. Not your stbx. If you are not comfortable having him there, then don't.

Second, as for him not settling for being called after the birth. Well, he doesn't have a choice in the matter. It's not his body that is the one giving birth. It's yours. And if you don't want him there, you don't have to have him there.