Thanks, everyone, for your thoughtful responses. I am still on te fence.
I teach in an elementary school, and I am a special area teacher which means I see 700 kids a week. That is a LOT of germs. So man of them were sick with H1N1 and the regular flu last year. On top of that, Dd will be in grade school, and DS will be in preschool. DH works in a building with thousands of employess and is in various meetings with all kinds of people on a weekly basis. So, I feel like the chances of someone getting sick are fairly high. Neither DH or I were sick last yearm but the kids did get sick. DD worse than DS. I have been reading various reports and studies on the flu and H1n1 vaccines and I still have absolutely no idea what to do. I do know that you are at a higher risk when yiu are pregnant because you are already more susceptible to illness. I do take my vits and extra D, and keep up with the yogurt, but I am just still worried.
I am perfectly sure that i will not get it before 16 weeks. But, after that I am still unsure...