This doesn't exactly answer your question (you've gotten good advice from others), but I'm an attorney by training and I strongly suspect this is a liability thing. You mentioning you were thinking of hiring a midwife made them think you might use them for shadow care, then try to birth at home and potentially show up at the hospital as what they refer to as a "train wreck", have a bad outcome, and then sue them because your midwife doesn't carry liability insurance. This is why the letter states that it applies to all doctors in their practice (i.e. whomever is on call, so you would have to get care from the hospital's on-staff OB and any liability would be the hospital's alone). Is their response overly paranoid and frankly absurd? Absolutely. But this is the world we are living in these days.
Regarding the records, they may believe that if they send records directly to a midwife they are somehow countenancing your choice to pursue midwifery care and could be subject to liability for in some way cooperating with your midwife (who you haven't even hired yet ...). Most likely, this is a draconian response to something that has either happened to this particular practice or to someone that one of the doctors knows. Sometimes I hate lawyers and the entire legal profession, and the fact that their antics have caused such grief and suffering for mothers and babies is at the top of my list of complaints.
Regarding the records, they may believe that if they send records directly to a midwife they are somehow countenancing your choice to pursue midwifery care and could be subject to liability for in some way cooperating with your midwife (who you haven't even hired yet ...). Most likely, this is a draconian response to something that has either happened to this particular practice or to someone that one of the doctors knows. Sometimes I hate lawyers and the entire legal profession, and the fact that their antics have caused such grief and suffering for mothers and babies is at the top of my list of complaints.





She did get the records, eventually... and called to tell me I'd be just fine for my VBAC, as I was nursing my 3 month old. 



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