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post #21 of 32
Some are assuming a public school's uniforms will be simpler or less expensive than a private school's, but that was not the case at my public school.

There was a wide variety of incomes, and you could tell from the kids' clothes. That was the main issue the school board was trying to address by starting uniforms (I was in 9th grade when it started, my sister was in 6th).

Well, the poor kids couldn't afford marked-up-to-$12 polo shirts with an embroidered school emblem, or $15 khaki Dickies pants, especially when their parents were trying to buy for 2 or 3 kids all at the same time. Plus in Louisiana, you NEED short sleeves for summer and long sleeves for winter ... unless you wear a coat over short sleeves, but it had to be a uniform coat with the school emblem, which cost $40. The rich kids thought it was below them to buy off-brand marked-up shirts and Dickies.

It ended up working out that the poor kids bought thrift store polos and their parents got cheap iron-on emblems (which immediately started flaking off, that sure looked nice). For pants they got Dollar General khaki-colored jeans which also fell apart. Meanwhile the rich kids bought Tommy Hilfiger khakis and Ralph Lauren polos, and paid extra to have them embroidered "to code".

It was horrible. Now it's easier since you can find outgrown ones at yard sales (no thrift stores though, we're really isolated small town), but then some mean kid starts teasing "Your mom had to buy MY old shirt". There was MORE teasing and fighting after the uniforms started. Before everyone knew some families bought clothes at the Family Dollar or wherever, but when your Fruit of the Loom t-shirts fell apart your mom could scrape up $5 for another pack. The uniforms made it painfully obvious because most families couldn't afford to fix/replace it once it started to look bad. That just makes easy targets.
post #22 of 32
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Originally Posted by EmmysMama View Post

It ended up working out that the poor kids bought thrift store polos and their parents got cheap iron-on emblems (which immediately started flaking off, that sure looked nice). For pants they got Dollar General khaki-colored jeans which also fell apart. Meanwhile the rich kids bought Tommy Hilfiger khakis and Ralph Lauren polos, and paid extra to have them embroidered "to code".
Totally agree. I was one of the odd ones out in high school that thought uniforms would be good for the equalizing pros but it surely turned out not to be a case for that exact reason. Gap and Gymboree and all the others carrying name brand jumped in with their uniform clothing and that is not equalizing. It still makes economics stand out.

On one plus side dd can grab any shorts(pants for the 2 months we have cool weather) and any polo and surely it would match. It made mornings simple.
post #23 of 32
Just a suggestion that might help out finance wise:

Our school holds a clothing drive at the end of each school year where the PTA collects uniform clothing (along with coats and other useful items). Then clothing is available to families who have trouble affording school uniforms. Since our school collects more than our students will need each year, we also pass clothing along to a Title I school in our district that has the same colors in their uniform policy.

You wouldn't believe how many boxes and boxes and boxes of clothing we collected. Especially in the smaller sizes, where kids grow faster than they wear them out. We had volunteers wash, fold, and sort everything prior to distribution.

If you helped organize a drive for your school, you could probably get first dibs on good clothing for your DC.
post #24 of 32
For your son with autism, have his IEP or 504 amended to reflect that he can dress in ways that work for his sensory issues. I'd try to keep colors as similar.
post #25 of 32
Dd1's high school has uniforms. Dd2 is switching to an elementary with uniforms. We bought hers today. One skirt, one pants, 2 short sleeve blouses, 2 golf shirts, 1 cardigan. $180. But they will be her main clothes for at least 2 years of school, although we do have to buy a heavier sweater for winter, that can wait.

Our district insists that we buy from one particular store. But that store apparently guarantees no child labour, fair trade, mostly made in Canada. Walmart doesn't. That is a big plus, morally.
post #26 of 32
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Originally Posted by mommy2maya View Post
I would definitely check with them about a voucher. With uniforms, you can have a lot less clothes overall- three shirts, three pants. So, $15 for shirts, and then another $30 for pants- you can generally get the plain khaki pants in the summer, soon, for around $10/pr at target or kmart or walmart.

Our school district has had uniforms for years now, way before my kids started. I really do love it- so simple and easy to get them ready in the mornings. I haven't heard any complaints really from other parents, tho that may be because they've been there forever and it is what it is.
Three sets for younger grades would probably not cut it - they'd get dirty and have to be washed more often. That would be unrealistic for someone who doesn't own their own washer/dryer.

I wonder, too, what would happen if a student showed up not in uniform repeatedly. Don't they have to provide an education no matter what?
post #27 of 32
I have a first and third grader (well, now a second and fourth) and three sets has been plenty for us.
post #28 of 32
Check out Soft Clothing (softclothing.net) for your ds. They make clothes especially for kids with sensory issues. They don't carry polo shirts, but they do carry dress pants that are more comfortable. I know cost is an issue here too, but at least that could help him stand it.
post #29 of 32
An old district we lived in went thru this (We always homeschooled) and it turns out there is an 'opt out' option - kinda like vax- the school doesnt like to say they know about it. Nor does teh distrcit office but in PUBLIC school no child should be forced to wear anything. Now not allowed to wear something is another matter, but forced to wear is just wrong.

Many many autistic kids just can not handle regular docker type pants and polo shirts with sneakers.... they can only fuction in t's with runner pants and crocs and there is nothign wrong w. that.
post #30 of 32
I would send out to Freecycle saying what your needs are and see what you get.

Def. a waiver for your son.

I would buy some fabric dye in maroon, as that opens up your polo shirt search a bit. Y'know, pink, white, red, any of those should be able to be overdyed maroon.

There must be a lot of kids in uniform here because my thrift store has a uniform section and more of it mixed in the general clothes.
post #31 of 32
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Thanks for all the responses!I still don't think uniforms are a good thing,but I don't have a choice.I emailed the person who is supposed to be doing the waivers and vouchers,and she never responded. I did some looking around and Target has uniform pants in husky sizes,as does walmart but I don't think he'll be comfortable in those.I know polos are out of the question.They are allowing tees so that is ok.I would have to travel about 40 mins to a Target that carries the pants,since I don't want to do mail order as I'm not positive on the size.I wish this person would just get back to me!She talked to the newspaper recently about this so I know she's around.I think most of the commitee members know my name,since I'm seen as the crazy non vaxer.I have a fight ahead of me for that too.They're saying I need a letter from a pastor,which is not in RI state law.So I have a feeling I'll get a fight for the waiver for my ds.I really hate our local school system,I wish I could homeschool but it's just not an option right now.
post #32 of 32
If I were you and the person responsible for the wavers doesn't get back to me I'd send him to school in the colours but in styles he is comfortable in. If they mention anything you can tell them that you weren't able to connect with anyone who could get you a waver at the school and then ask if they want him to be wearing the wrong kind of pants or do they want him throwing a fit because he's wearing something that is horribly uncomfortable for him.
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