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I hate the summer

post #1 of 6
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I hear this from my 4 yo at least 3x a day. She is really having issues this year with the heat - she complains about being hot and sweaty and has a really hard time with getting in the car (because it is so hot inside the car, the carseat is hot, her snacks are hot, etc) which makes it hard to even take her somewhere cool. Today she threw a huge tantrum because I was sitting outside with DD2 (who like me, loves being outside in summer) after we got the mail. She didn't want to be out because it was too hot and insisted I go in with her. Even activities like swimming (we belong to a pool) are not enticing to her. It has been in the high 90s/low 100s the past couple of weeks so that isn't helping.
Any advice?
post #2 of 6
No advice, hugs though!! I really feel her pain, I get the same way.
post #3 of 6
Keep a blanket over her carseat & run the air conditioning for at least 5 minutes, if not longer, before getting in. Keeping the windows cracked a little can help keep it cooler, especially if there's a wind but it will without too. don't keep snacks in the car, or keep them in the trunk it'll be cooler in there. If they're snacks you pack & take with you put them in a cooler bag. If you don't want to run the car/a/c before you get in, at least roll the windows down before getting in & while driving.
post #4 of 6
Is there any way you could park in the garage? That helps keep our car much much cooler.

Poor kid -- I'm heat intolerant too and feel her pain!
post #5 of 6
I live in NC, so we deal with mega-hot Summers. Some stuff that helps in the car-

Bring a chilled drink along. Keep a water bottle in the fridge for a few hours before you leave. Add an ice cube or two just before leaving. Leave a bit of preparation time before going places. Open all the car doors for a minute or two to let the trapped heat out then close it up and run the air conditioner for a few minutes. Definitely keep a blanket or towel over the car seat when you're not using it. This keeps buckles and clips form getting dangerously hot and will keep the seat itself cooler as well. Use a windshield sunshade to keep the whole car cooler. If she'll wear them, make sure your DD has sunglasses. Squinting at the sun makes everything more intolerable. If the day is very, very hot, give her a small, reusable ice pack to hold. Cover it in a thin handkerchief if you're worried about condensation. Teach her to rub it on her inner elbows, wrists, back of the neck and behind the knees. Instant relief! Allow her to go out with wet hair. The evaporation process is cooling.
post #6 of 6
Like your DD1, my DD1 complains frequently about how she "hates" summer. She also gripes about how bored she is with staying inside because it's so hot outside. I can't win. Last week, I nailed a few old bedsheets to the shady side of the deck to create a fort. I set out a small fan, spread some blankets, grabbed some books and activities, and invited her to hang out with me (after dousing ourselves in mosquito repellent because those things are terrible where we live). She really enjoyed our fort. Her mood lightened considerably-- trust me, she's a hard kid to please!
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