Dd has scoliosis, and she had an appointment today. She is with ex this month and she had to have an appointment immediately. We were supposed to be at the appointment at 12noon to fill out paperwork (first time there).
I showed up at 12:00, then started filling out paperwork. Then got a call from ex asking how to get there. He wouldn't tell me how long it would take, or where he was. At 12:45 I called to see if he was really bringing her (as earlier this week, he was trying to make a deal with me so he would not have to come to the appointment). At 1:00pm he finally arrived. I had already talked to the staff and asked them to allow her to be seen. They agreed. Ex refused to sign the financial responsibility form. He sat very far away from the receptionist desk as if he wasn't even there.
When the doctor came into her room, he wanted to take the xrays and keep them (whoa, now he is interested in her!). The doctor made copies to give us. We had to make an appointment with the physical therapist. He brought up the physical therapist who worked with her when she was in the 0-3 program with the state due to mild CP. The doctor wanted her to use the therapist at the center there because he could be in direct communication with them, and they with him. The ex argued that alot. Finally we walked over to make the appointment and he told me that he wanted me to take her to the appointment. She is with him for 33 days total, and she will have to go next week, and twice a week for 6 weeks or so. I want to be around her, I want to be there to help her, but he will be calling me, demanding to know which intersection I am at, wanting to force me to take her directly, and bring her back directly. So to the point, I would get the burden of taking her, and dealing with his sh%t, but not getting the pleasure to spend time with her except on the drive up and back.
Two issues...should I tell him about these things, give him the appointment times, but pick her up and take her? Should I be concerned (in the real sense) that he is not interested in her medical care?
I showed up at 12:00, then started filling out paperwork. Then got a call from ex asking how to get there. He wouldn't tell me how long it would take, or where he was. At 12:45 I called to see if he was really bringing her (as earlier this week, he was trying to make a deal with me so he would not have to come to the appointment). At 1:00pm he finally arrived. I had already talked to the staff and asked them to allow her to be seen. They agreed. Ex refused to sign the financial responsibility form. He sat very far away from the receptionist desk as if he wasn't even there.
When the doctor came into her room, he wanted to take the xrays and keep them (whoa, now he is interested in her!). The doctor made copies to give us. We had to make an appointment with the physical therapist. He brought up the physical therapist who worked with her when she was in the 0-3 program with the state due to mild CP. The doctor wanted her to use the therapist at the center there because he could be in direct communication with them, and they with him. The ex argued that alot. Finally we walked over to make the appointment and he told me that he wanted me to take her to the appointment. She is with him for 33 days total, and she will have to go next week, and twice a week for 6 weeks or so. I want to be around her, I want to be there to help her, but he will be calling me, demanding to know which intersection I am at, wanting to force me to take her directly, and bring her back directly. So to the point, I would get the burden of taking her, and dealing with his sh%t, but not getting the pleasure to spend time with her except on the drive up and back.
Two issues...should I tell him about these things, give him the appointment times, but pick her up and take her? Should I be concerned (in the real sense) that he is not interested in her medical care?
