I had a not-so-stellar check up the other day. I'm in a birth center with 5 midwives. You meet with all of them over the course of your pregnancy. The first appt I had a "temp" midwife and liked her a lot - but will never see her again.
This second time I had a midwife that I just did not click with. I brought my toddler with me, somewhat on purpose, because I believed MW practices were supposed to be family friendly. Maybe she was having a bad day, but all my son's actions seemed to distract and bother her. Even just walking from one place to another. It was like she'd never dealt with a mom with a 2 year old before.
Anyhow, the visit was 80% signing "I promise not to sue you" forms. During that process, she told me that moms with CPD have a 50% success rate. She said that because I was OP, I would have between 50%-80% chance. Those numbers keep going around in my head and I feel very down. The owner of the practice made me feel like my chance was 95%.
I don't want people to sugar coat things for me, but I don't want them to be unnecessarily negative either. I would have thought from the ICAN materials that CPD had a much higher success. What's the story here? And how do I process this information?
Honestly, I am TERRIFIED of another c/s. I am terrified of just getting some random OB at the hospital and what he'll do to me. On top of that we don't have maternity coverage and we'll be absolutely sunk if we have to pay for the c/s on top of the mw bill. AAAAAAAAAAAA. Help!
This second time I had a midwife that I just did not click with. I brought my toddler with me, somewhat on purpose, because I believed MW practices were supposed to be family friendly. Maybe she was having a bad day, but all my son's actions seemed to distract and bother her. Even just walking from one place to another. It was like she'd never dealt with a mom with a 2 year old before.
Anyhow, the visit was 80% signing "I promise not to sue you" forms. During that process, she told me that moms with CPD have a 50% success rate. She said that because I was OP, I would have between 50%-80% chance. Those numbers keep going around in my head and I feel very down. The owner of the practice made me feel like my chance was 95%.
I don't want people to sugar coat things for me, but I don't want them to be unnecessarily negative either. I would have thought from the ICAN materials that CPD had a much higher success. What's the story here? And how do I process this information?
Honestly, I am TERRIFIED of another c/s. I am terrified of just getting some random OB at the hospital and what he'll do to me. On top of that we don't have maternity coverage and we'll be absolutely sunk if we have to pay for the c/s on top of the mw bill. AAAAAAAAAAAA. Help!










