I had a c/s with DS 6 years ago because he was transverse. I am so ready for a VBAC this time around (due in Sept).
It seems obvious to have a doula since I will be in the hospital (birth centers in my area do not allow VBACS though I am having a midwife not an OB. Homebirth is out since we live on a sailboat). But the price for a doula since my son was born seems to have doubled! I can't find anyone under $800!!!
Here's what I am worried about: The hospital pressuring me and/ or DH into things we don't want to do. Or just bugging me while I try to labor in peace.
Here's what I am comfortable with: the birth process in general. I have been lucky enough to attend the natural births (hospital and home) of 3 different good friends. I have seen it first hand from beginning to end. I am extremely comfortable and confident that I can do this... I truly have no worries except for the worry of people interferring.
Is a doula a good guard dog against a pushy hospital staff with a high CS rate? A necessity? Or if I am sure about what I want and that I can do it, will the midwife and my husband be enough?
Thanks for the input...!
It seems obvious to have a doula since I will be in the hospital (birth centers in my area do not allow VBACS though I am having a midwife not an OB. Homebirth is out since we live on a sailboat). But the price for a doula since my son was born seems to have doubled! I can't find anyone under $800!!!
Here's what I am worried about: The hospital pressuring me and/ or DH into things we don't want to do. Or just bugging me while I try to labor in peace.
Here's what I am comfortable with: the birth process in general. I have been lucky enough to attend the natural births (hospital and home) of 3 different good friends. I have seen it first hand from beginning to end. I am extremely comfortable and confident that I can do this... I truly have no worries except for the worry of people interferring.
Is a doula a good guard dog against a pushy hospital staff with a high CS rate? A necessity? Or if I am sure about what I want and that I can do it, will the midwife and my husband be enough?
Thanks for the input...!








