My DSS(11)'s mom just had a baby. TWO DAYS after I did! Both girls. Crazy huh? What are the odds? I also have an 18mo DS. She has no other children besides those mentioned. I try to look at it spiritually in that the SS will get a chance to see two girls raised completely different - background: we're weird Christian, anti-TV& VG, pro healthfood, old fashioned country farmer types with rock n roll backgrounds and tattoos. Can you imagine? ha! And the BM's family is high rolling strip-joint owners. At any rate. It bugs me when the DSS, whom we have joint custody of and he lives with us one week and his mom the next, goes on and on about his mom's baby. I just want to enjoy my own daughter without her being compared. Is that so wrong? Gosh, I can't wait til school starts. Feel free to chime in, I just needed to share that in a safe place. I'm sure no one else is in the same predicament.
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7/13/10 at 6:25pm