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Swaddling at 7 months???

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HI Mammas- (Xposted in life with a babe)

My happy boy still likes to be swaddled for naps and bedtime--although sometimes he will/can take a nap without the swaddle, but not normally when he is at home. And if he isn't swaddled he sleeps a 1/2 hour instead of the 1-2 hours he normally sleeps.

He goes to sleep easily with the swaddle (its actually a sleep sack with velcro around only the arms-- his legs are free-- its called a DreamSwaddle)-- but cries and complains when not swaddled (or with one arm out-- same thing) and does not fall asleep easily--and he wakes up often.

He isn't crawling yet (just moving backwards and belly surfing in 360 circles...)- but has been sitting up since about 4.5 months old and appears to be hitting all his developmental "milestones" just fine.

I get the "vibe" from all around me that I should be breaking him of this "habit"...but I really don't know if that is necessary??? Won't he just grow out of it? When can I put a sheet in the crib and start tucking him in tightly? (I know, not for a while....but its just a thought.... LOLOL) We are totally against CIO- and he doesn't cry at bedtime now-- so I am afraid to start making bedtime a traumatic experience!

In the morning he often gets up about 30 minutes before we go in and get him and just babbles and "plays" happily in his crib-- although I wish he had his arms free to actually PLAY-- although it doesn't seem to bother him! He just sits there are "talks" to his mobile (and by "talk" I don't mean cry...he is quite happy!)

I am wondering if I should upwrap his arms after I nurse him at night (usually about 3 or 4 am)-- so he usually nurses back to sleep and might not be disturbed by the "unwrapping".... or just do nothing.

People keep telling me that I will know when he is done with swaddling, but each time I think he is sick of the swaddle by wiggling around in it-- he gets way more upset without it! This thing is almost impossible to break out of-btw.

Any feedback Mammas?
post #2 of 4
Hi Mamma!

This is completely my opinion, and it comes from my experience. I say whatever works for you and your baby is what you should do. Follow his lead. If your LO is happy, then keep him swaddled. I know that you/or others may feel like he may be happier to have his arms free to move around in sleep or play when he wakes, but he is happy and I bet happier being tightly wrapped. Believe it or not my DS who is just about 15 months is still swaddled! Many of my family and friends think it's crazy, but my DS will have it no other way. He NEEDS to nap and go down for the night this way. During his day naps he stays tightly swaddled (legs free though), and at night he falls asleep swaddled. Around 9 months he began freeing his arms on his own in the middle of the night, waking momentarily, but then falling back to sleep. But he still has to fall asleep at night swaddled. I've tried in the past to try not swaddling, but same as your LO, he would sleep only about 30 mins. Some babies enjoy being swaddled (for a long time like my DS), it calms them, and keeps them snug and comfortable enough to sleep soundly. I say swaddle away! As long as your DS is happy, and sleeping then why change something that is working and good? Take care!
post #3 of 4
We just stopped swaddling our daughter at about 7.5 months---we moved to a sleep sack and it was a little bit annoying for a couple of days but she was consistently breaking out of the swaddle and it became MORE annoying to try to rewrap her at night. If she still fits in the swaddle and it helps her sleep--why change?
post #4 of 4
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Thanks Mammas...Glad to hear that others have encountered this.

I haven't read anything that says this could hurt his development....so I am happy to "let it be" at the moment. I just need to ignore the folks who think we are "wrong"......
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