hi mamas i need your help.
suddenly i find i am 'parenting' my roommates 16 and almost 18 year old. a huge jump from my 7 year old. and yet not.
roommate is struggling with his sons and his sons ARE listening to me.
right now his almost 18 year old is cleaning the refrigerator to make some money.
later on there will be a garage to clean out. a LOT of work.
i have no clue how much he should be paid. their dad just left saying i should decide how much he should be paid. i have NO CLUE.
how do you decide?
the son is broke. his brand new gf has a bday on friday. i am sure he would like to do something nice for her. and so needs the money.
his dad is thrilled!!!! his son has been in a lot of trouble. including a ticket for shoplifting.
he is thrilled that instead of asking him for money or borrowing, his son asked him if there were any chores he could do.
so i need to figure out the amount of pay. google wasnt helpful.
right now for the refrigerator.
later for garage or any other chores. how do i decide on the amount of money.
i was thinking $20 for the refrigerator. it will take him an hour. he IS doing a good job. deep cleaning. i was going by what a cleaning lady would charge at least in our area ($20 for an hour). minimum wage would be $8 or even $10. but that seems unfair.
any words of advice i would really appreciate.
suddenly i find i am 'parenting' my roommates 16 and almost 18 year old. a huge jump from my 7 year old. and yet not.
roommate is struggling with his sons and his sons ARE listening to me.
right now his almost 18 year old is cleaning the refrigerator to make some money.
later on there will be a garage to clean out. a LOT of work.
i have no clue how much he should be paid. their dad just left saying i should decide how much he should be paid. i have NO CLUE.
how do you decide?
the son is broke. his brand new gf has a bday on friday. i am sure he would like to do something nice for her. and so needs the money.
his dad is thrilled!!!! his son has been in a lot of trouble. including a ticket for shoplifting.
he is thrilled that instead of asking him for money or borrowing, his son asked him if there were any chores he could do.
so i need to figure out the amount of pay. google wasnt helpful.
right now for the refrigerator.
later for garage or any other chores. how do i decide on the amount of money.
i was thinking $20 for the refrigerator. it will take him an hour. he IS doing a good job. deep cleaning. i was going by what a cleaning lady would charge at least in our area ($20 for an hour). minimum wage would be $8 or even $10. but that seems unfair.
any words of advice i would really appreciate.








