5 more weeks until my program starts-- how do I forget about it until then?!?

[cakemama579]

Hello all,

I really don't want to think about the fact that I'll be starting my RN program in 5 weeks, and that my DS will be starting at a Montessori school in 6 weeks (he's 2.5)-- at a 5 day program, no less! I'm excited and terrified for it to begin, but for now I want to just forget about it and focus on the last weeks we have together (as a SAHM).

Any pointers on how to keep the future-- in the future?

[laurabfig]

I struggle with this "living in the moment" thing too. I am currently on summer break and go back to work in a little over a month, but feel that I'm worrying a bit about going back (36 weeks pregnant) since I know already those first few weeks of the school year are going to be stressful.
I think remembering to stop and enjoy the little things each day helps us just appreciate the time we do have NOW. And I can encourage you to say that sometimes the routine of daycare and work/(school for you) can add some structure to your life that feels grounding in some way. Plus it sounds like you will be spending time learning, in order to build a meaningful career in a very needed profession, and your child is going to grow up seeing that and admiring that.
I just picked up the book "Everyday Blessings, Mindful Parenting"...might be a good read for you right now. I haven't started it yet, but it is written based on Zen philosophies and from scanning it, looked like a lot of accepting what is, in that specific moment in our lives.
Enjoy these weeks- and enjoy the new adventure you're embarking on...when it gets here!

[cakemama579]

Thanks for the tips Laura. I will def. go pick that book up-- it sounds like it could be really beneficial for me!

I've been trying to fill our days with a lot of fun activities rather than errands, and that seems to help both keep my mind in the moment, and give us some extra mommy-son time.

Good luck to you with your new little one and the two you already have!

Sarah