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I found this web site, "hand in hand parenting", to be really useful and compassionate. We had a traumatic birth too. I found a podcast episode on this site called "helping your baby heal from a traumatic birth." i did do many of the things suggested here and they seem to be helping, little by little, over time.

i also find that as I heal, he heals - we really are quite an ecosystem, us mamas and babies.