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Originally Posted by ReadingMama 
I've had friends with giant dogs who growl at the kids (one family had Great Danes and one family had rotties). The kids were bugging the dogs and so the dogs gave warning growls. It freaked me out (as I have a friendly-to- everyone lab mix who tries to lick milk off of babies' mouths), but the parents watched for any other posturing or behavior that would indicate aggression and they never found any. One of the giant rotties did bite ME when I was playing with his family's toddler by chasing her through the house, but never the kids. If the kids came near him while he ate or got near his Nylabone, he growled too. These familes saw the growls as warnings--dog speak for, "You're in my personal space, kid. Back off." Maybe these dogs are so huge and babies are so small that they treat them like they'd treat puppies?
I'm no expert and I'm all for erring on the side of caution. It is definitely your responsibility to make sure your kids are safe--even if this means less freedom for your dog for a while. I'd read up on dog body language and maybe even spring for a home eval with a behaviorist. Getting a professional's opinion about your dog's behavior might make you feel better about whatever you decide.
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Yes, the growls are warnings but I wouldn't just allow a dog to growl at a baby. With an older child who UNDERSTANDS the growling, maybe. My son is 9 and sometimes likes to try and get in the rottie's face. She will tolerate it for a second, and then she growls. She never bites, but he (through much conditioning from me) understands that this is her way of saying "I don't like it, get out of my space". However, I wouldn't let that happen if I wasn't right there, either way.
NEVER trust a dog 100%, especially when kids are involved, and ALWAYS supervise.