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10 Month Old & Serious Freak-outs In Car

post #1 of 8
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She's almost 10 months old and has been getting worse and worse in the car. The instant we buckle her, she starts getting upset and her crabbiness increases as the trip goes on. She's definitely an "explorer", is crawling and so on and HATES being "stuck" in any spot at any time. I get why she's mad, but there's nothing I can do about it - we've got to go places.

We just drove a five hour trip and it was touch and go the whole time. I had to sit in the back with her (though I get car sick) and entertain her. At times I had to nurse her while we were traveling (her still buckled in her seat and my go-go-gadget boob s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g to her mouth). We have another eight hour trip this weekend and then another eight hour one after that. There's NO avoiding these trips.

She screams and screams and screams - to the point of voice loss. It's HORRIBLE. She doesn't just let it out and fall asleep - she sticks to her guns and screams. She's still rear-facing and I think it would be way better if she wasn't but there's no way around it right now since she's still really little.

She doesn't take a binky so that won't help. Opening the windows interests her for a second. Any toys interest her for 30 seconds at a time. At the end of a trip, we usually have 20 million things strewn about the back seats since she's thrown them everywhere.

We do have a dvd player in the car and my five year old watches Nemo and that will interest her for a few minutes. I'm wondering if maybe Baby Einstein or something will help?? We haven't really watched anything with the baby yet.

Anyone have any ideas?!
post #2 of 8
The car is the one place that is completely non-negotiable. I get that kids hate being strapped in and in one place, and we make sure to stop frequently if it's a longer stretch, but anything under an hour is very much a 'sorry, but that is where you are' thing around here. We live about an hour from the nearest town of any size at all, so sometimes there are cranky car trips. I soothe as best I can, and we keep driving to our destination.

My youngest HATES being in the car seat. I attempt distraction, but that usually just makes him more angry.
post #3 of 8
My babe's a lot younger, but had this problem for the first 4 months or so. Toys help immensely in our case (specifically wrist rattles). Strangely, when toys/paci/music all stop working, if I start howling like a very sad, loud wolf, she will settle down and go to sleep. I don't know why it works, or why I even did it the first time, but it works. Chances are my baby's just insane, but maybe try it and let me know if it helps.
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Yeah I did notice that if I sing REALLY loudly she calms a bit, but Lord knows I can't do that for eight hours. I mean obviously I have to just do it, but I'm wondering if anyone has had any luck with anything else to soothe?
post #5 of 8
Is she in one of those infant "bucket" carrier type seats or a convertible? I have heard some babies find the convertibles more comfortable (RF of course). If she is already in a convertible, do you still have it way reclined at 45 degrees? Some older babies like being a little more upright, and I have read you can move it up to 30 degrees instead of so reclined. Can the older sibings help at all? My older two love talking and entertaining the baby in the back seat.
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[QUOTE=saffrongirl;15645319] At times I had to nurse her while we were traveling (her still buckled in her seat and my go-go-gadget boob s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g to her mouth).

Funny.... that is what we refer to car seat nursing! After a ton of thought, we finally gave in and turned DS forward facing. It has made everything better. DS is very strong and was ready. Life in the car is sooooo much better.
post #7 of 8
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She's in an infant seat. One of those that clicks into the base. Maybe you're right about the convertible though - I hadn't really thought about those feeling different. She's a little girl - probably 18 lbs, so I don't think I'm ready to turn her forward-facing yet.
post #8 of 8
You may try a new carseat -- being higher can help. Have you tried a mirror facing her so she can see more? Also, magnesium -- baby calm is one brand name -- can help.
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