DH says it is totally up to me, but here is the backstory. DS's birth was a hosptial birth that did not go as we envisioned. I was pressured into an induction (looking back it was unnecessary) at 42w1d. I had pitocin and it was awful. I was able to still go without pain meds, but the pain was really, really bad and the experience was traumatic. We decided to go with a hospital birth again because we thought we were more educated this time and could make better decisions and not be pressured.
Now that I am 39 weeks, I'm not so sure. I tested GBS+ and plan on refusing abx. Our midwife is supportive to a certain extent, but we are finding that she is a more medicalized midwife than we like. She is very pro abx, pro pitocin during 3rd stage of labor, etc.
I am hoping to birth at home as long as possible and go to the hospital just to have the baby. I don't want an induction and I don't want to be there long enough for them to pressure us into getting the abx. My fear is that when I'm in actual labor that DH and I will panic and go in too early and the same crap will happen again (not progressing, pressured into pitocin or other interventions, etc).
So, we looked into homebirth, but my current midwife really scared me about the possibility of GBS sepsis in the baby with me not getting the abx.
We spoke to some homebirth midwives in our area and did get this option, which sounds great to me, but is $1800. What do you think??
When we have served families in the past in the Montrice role, what is most common is a team/circle of support enabeling the family to labor at home as long as possible and then the family moving to the hospital with 1 or 2 of our assistants in order to birth and welcome their baby there. At home LeAnn and I and one of our assistants would offer you anybody/mind/spirit support and also give you information about how your labor was unfolding (monitoring your vital signs, listening to your baby, checking you internally as you desired for how your body is opening and how baby is moving down). We would be available to answer any questions or provide you with information and options. We would respond to what your desires call for in terms of hands on or hands off support. As birth drew near one of our assistants/or apprentices would then accompany you to the hospital. At the hospital your hospital provider assumes her role as your primary birth attendant. Our assistant is there at the hospital to continue to offer you whatever support is needed and to answer any questions and share information and options. We are also still available to you by phone and will also offer you information, options and answer any questions you have. We have also offered in home postpartum visits, (how the adjustment is going for the whole family, physical assessment of mom and baby, breastfeeding support, etc...)
Now that I am 39 weeks, I'm not so sure. I tested GBS+ and plan on refusing abx. Our midwife is supportive to a certain extent, but we are finding that she is a more medicalized midwife than we like. She is very pro abx, pro pitocin during 3rd stage of labor, etc.
I am hoping to birth at home as long as possible and go to the hospital just to have the baby. I don't want an induction and I don't want to be there long enough for them to pressure us into getting the abx. My fear is that when I'm in actual labor that DH and I will panic and go in too early and the same crap will happen again (not progressing, pressured into pitocin or other interventions, etc).
So, we looked into homebirth, but my current midwife really scared me about the possibility of GBS sepsis in the baby with me not getting the abx.
We spoke to some homebirth midwives in our area and did get this option, which sounds great to me, but is $1800. What do you think??
When we have served families in the past in the Montrice role, what is most common is a team/circle of support enabeling the family to labor at home as long as possible and then the family moving to the hospital with 1 or 2 of our assistants in order to birth and welcome their baby there. At home LeAnn and I and one of our assistants would offer you anybody/mind/spirit support and also give you information about how your labor was unfolding (monitoring your vital signs, listening to your baby, checking you internally as you desired for how your body is opening and how baby is moving down). We would be available to answer any questions or provide you with information and options. We would respond to what your desires call for in terms of hands on or hands off support. As birth drew near one of our assistants/or apprentices would then accompany you to the hospital. At the hospital your hospital provider assumes her role as your primary birth attendant. Our assistant is there at the hospital to continue to offer you whatever support is needed and to answer any questions and share information and options. We are also still available to you by phone and will also offer you information, options and answer any questions you have. We have also offered in home postpartum visits, (how the adjustment is going for the whole family, physical assessment of mom and baby, breastfeeding support, etc...)











ya know? You could kill that little bug without lots of collateral damage in other ways.
, Um, I don't think it's a stretch to say that's something you're capable of handling, ya know?


