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Help! I need a better morning routine

post #1 of 4
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So I have recently returned to working FT after working 2 days/week for the past 6 months. And I am finding it so, so difficult to get out of the house in the morning.

I cosleep with DD (almost 14 months). DH sleeps in his own room and my in-laws, who are on an extended stay and currently providing our daytime childcare, sleep in their own room.

The optimal scenario is I sneak out of bed, baby stays asleep (along with everyone else in the house), and when she wakes up MIL or DH will get her and everything is fine.

Of course that only happens like 10% of the time. Usually the baby realizes within 5-20 min that I am no longer in the bed, wakes up, and cries. She will only be consoled by boob. If baby is awake when I leave there will inevitably be a scene with lots of tears. So I try to boob her back down to sleep so I can get out the door. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but it can take up to half an hour and it sure does make me late for work a lot.

How do you get out of the house in the morning with your heart and your sanity intact? Advice needed please!
post #2 of 4
I'm not going to be helpful, but I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. It takes me forever to get everything done in the morning when my 19 mo son is awake, but there is no sense getting up until he is--he enters very light sleep at around 5 am but likes to lounge in bed and nurse until about 7:30. There are tears and an awake little boy if I do anything but stay in bed with him and nurse.

Thanks for asking the question--I'll be watching with interest!
post #3 of 4
I feel so hypocritical asking this b/c I RARELY do this- but how much prep are you doing at night to get out of the house in the a.m.? Are your clothes ready, lunch packed, bags/pump ready to go by the door? I know everyone always says to do as much as you can the night before (which again, I have a HARD time doing) to make the mornings easier.

I will be anxiously awaiting others' replies. My kids are older, but I'm going to have another babe soon and will be going back to work around 5-6 months after he/she is born. I'm wondering how I will manage to EVER get out of the house on time in the a.m.!!!
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TBH, when we were in that stage I got the kid/s up with me and did my morning routine. They showered with me and I left amidst lots of tears. I found that the tears and sadness were worse if I left before they were awake. I takes me 1.5 hours to get ready this way. I also found that cutting out the morning nursing was the only way I got out the door on time. I wish I had better advice.
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